What do you do when his friends hate you

[fashionbraces]

Long story short.

We've been together for a year and a half.
He has a few close girlfriends from before our time together.
We broke up once and they consoled him through the breakup.
We got back together and they were not happy, did not support it, and refused to have contact with me.
I approached one of them to talk at a club this weekend and the whole clique swarmed and had the bouncer threaten to kick me out.
She called the police to call me to say if i ever talk to her again she'll press charges, though i've never threatened any violence.
My boyfriend heard about this, ignored me for 48 hours, then broke up with me - via text -.
He refused to talk to me further about it.
Now the same girls are consoling him through this breakup and we haven't talked since friday.

How the hell do you deal with your boyfriends girl friends.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

First off, you don't have a boyfriend.

If you have a problem with a friend or friends of his, avoid those people, and don't go with your boyfriend to things they'll be at if they are disrespectful to you.

Being a bitch back works too.

How did you approach this girl at the club?

[fashionbraces]

I walked up to her and grabbed her arm <- which is the line crosser on my part i know, and asked "why won't you talk to me". She didn't respond and her clique swarmed her and shooed me away. I asked her to be an adult and talk to me. She remained at the club for two hours more when i asked her again "it's just words, talk to me" and she continued to ignore me.

It was hard, my boyfriend could go to everything with my friends because i never soiled his name to them during the breakup, but i have to avoid anything that he goes and does with them and seperate for the night. I began to get jealous and extremely bothered by it.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

You should start moving on. I suggest you start by referring to him as your ex.

When he comes back around, tell him you're finished.

If the problem happens with a future boyfriend and he doesn't address it, leave him.

[fashionbraces]

Thank you. It sucks, but i know you're right.

[Cerulean.]

Definitely leave the relationship. Him and his friends sound a bit immature.