What to do about friend trying to get with me sister ?

[ChrisHaus]

This guy I thought was my friend has taken an interest in my sister. To make a long story short. He was my mentor at the tennis camp my sister and I go to. We are both 15. He is 17 and really good so he was designated to be my "mentor". He seemed really cool. He's hilarious etc and we were friendly. Thing is I've noticed him talking to my sister a lot more at camp and pairing up with her in activities. He has a reputation for being a player and as her brother this immediately set off my alarm. I knew I was right when I asked her why she giggling so much while texting at a family lunch. She wouldn't tell me but I found out it was him. I asked her best friend if she liked him and she told me that my sister would do anything to get him to be her boyfriend.

She's only dated two boys and they were both her age and definitely not trouble. Whats the best way to convince this guy to stop playing my sister.

Ps. My parents have met him and think he's a saint. And that my sister is just friends with him. They are oblivious to his true ways.

[iamaninnocentma]

Crack his jaw with your tennis bat.

[AdminOnline]

Crack his jaw with your tennis bat.

not a good advice.

[iamaninnocentma]

not a good advice.

Why not? This punk is going to defile his sister. What else can stop him?

[oldskool83]

its summer camp it sounds like, who cares.

[VincenzoG91]

I suppose a threesome is out of the question.

[smackie9]

If it's gonna be a bad decision, just let it be hers.....

[Cerby]

As much as I hate iamaninnocentma, if one of my friends was trying to get with my sister there would be some busted heads.

[smackie9]

From what I gather, this guy is just a likable, confident, out going fella, liked by anyone who comes in contact with him. Of course a guy with his personality will draw people to him especially girls. This doesn't make him a player, he just draws attention to himself because he is very likable and is socially gifted. To some of those insecure guys that are not so lucky with the ladies of course will view him as a player because of their envious perspective.

Secondly it is not YOUR job to deside who your sister dates or not, that is the responsability of your parents. Since they have met him and approve of him, you need not to get involved.

Anyways, you can't talk any sense into a 15 year old girl or even teenagers in general. If she has the hots for someone, you can't stop her unless you chain her up.

[iamaninnocentma]

yip, good idea smackie. Chain the bitch up.