Complex situation

[Pug505]

Hello All,

New member here and hoping I can get some advice .

The situation is that a woman who I work with and I have become really close over the past year or so, late last year we became really close friends and early this year we ended up having kind of an 'affair'.

She left her long term partner for me, but went back to him saying she 'wasn't finished with him'.

We have once again become very close and she has told me 'if it wasn't for him we would be together'.

I have told her I will wait for her and she has told me she still loves me.

Should I wait for her? Is she really likely to finish up with this guy or am I living in a fools paradise?

Hoping for some help....Thanks heaps in advance!

[smackie9]

She is dangerous goods. When things get boring in her relationship, she seeks out another until it loses flavor and then goes back to the BF. Sure wait so she can repeat the process......