I've known this girls for about a year now and we have just recently started hanging out to get to know eachother.
After a month of going out and doing things together like the cinema and all the generic datey stuff - I wanted to ask her out and see what she said so we met up in a coffee shop to talk about what was next and she said she didn't feel she knew me well enough and that she wasn't sure of her feelings towards me or that she was ready at all because she has never been in a relationship..
She said she is very shy when around people and is basically completely different at home and with her close friends...(being lively, talkative and quite the extrovert..) which unfortunately I am not seeing when I have been out with her.. By the way... this is exactly the same with me... I am quite shy and introverted when with social groups and such but are goofy and really talkative and different when I'm at home but how do we break out of the awkwardness???
She said she wants to meet up a couple more times and see how things go but that raises the question;
How do I get her to feel more comfortable around me so that she can BE HERSELF?!
Where should we go next so that she'll feel more at home and will be able to show me that silly/funny personality of hers that I really want to see and get to know?
It's been a few days since we had that meetup - should I arrange the next date/hangout? or should I wait for her to make a move?
I really want her to be more comfortable around me and not be so shy because I think we would be great together ...
Sorry this is long I've tried to condense it down so it's more readable for you guys.
Thank you for taking your time to read this and any help would be much appreciated!