Stealing another man's girlfriend

[pezzy124]

This is a very long story, but I'll give you the abridged version. I work at a summer camp. Someone I work with on camp brought their girlfriend to camp to work. She worked in my area (I was her boss) and we got along very well. They had relationship troubles from the get go. He is incredibly controlling and treats her poorly. As the summer progressed, I started to really like her. So one day I told her that I liked her. Little did I know, she liked me too (but she didn't tell me right away). Over the next few weeks we flirted a bit and talked constantly. I was really falling for her. One day she hugged me for a really long time. I asked her for some alone time. She agreed and we snuck away to meet up i the middle of the night. We did this three times. The first time we kissed and rubbed each other pretty good. The second time she gave me a hand job and dry humped me. The third time she gave me a blow job and rubbed our naked bodies together. She said that she loved me. We didn't actually have sex, but she wanted to. It was her time of the month. Anyway, the whole time I felt awful about it. I asked her if we could be together and she said that she loved him more. I asked her why and she had no good answer. One night I texted her and he took her phone away and read it (controlling). So he found out about us (kind of). He only found out that we liked each other. He didn't find out about anything else. Now he treats her like a bigger asshole and told her that she is forbidden from talking with me. She talks to me all the time anyhow. Now I'm the shoulder she cries on. I talk with her extensively and have tried to convince her that she should be with me instead. I really like her, but she is still giving her other relationship a chance. She tells me that she wants to be with me, but she refuses to break up with him. I feel like a backup and it sucks. What should I do?

[pisces25]

Are you serious? Start by getting some more self-respect. She is clearly using you and won't leave that guy coz she is stuck in a cycle with him that she can't, or won't, break out of. You're are just there to make her feel better when she wants it. Move on. She has already told you she won't break up with him.

[smackie9]

Dude put yourself in his shoes....you would be the controlling asshole too with what you know of her behavior, she can't be trusted. She obviously is NOT a victim, but boy she sure can play one, you got conned. Get your head out of your ass.....reality check: She is a manipulative slut.


Next time stay out of other peoples relationships.....in other words don't get involved with other guys GF's.

[Illusional]

haha are you that blind? why would she love you?? she can get dick from her asshole bf and then when she is in pain, she can cry on your shoulder. she won't waste her time with a relationship with you because you are nothing more than someone to run to when she is having a bad day.... with her bf.


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