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    She has cheated, what do i do!?!?

    We have been together for about a year now, I found out she slept with the same guy a couple of times at university towards the start of our relationship.

    We had been together for about 4/5 months, now we are entirely in love and do everything together. This is the girl I want to marry she is incredible!

    No I have found this out its completely thrown everything off

    What do I do!?!?!?

    I'm ****ing clueless, she has cried her eyes out said countless times how sorry she is and she had no idea we would be this serious back then so she never really cared.

    WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!?!? I at least need some options!!!

    PLEASE HELP!!!

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    haha how old are you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by martyloo View Post
    I at least need some options!!!
    Option 1. Accept that she is sorry and continue the relationship.
    Option 2. Don't accept that she is sorry and end the relationship.

    Next question please.

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    I could never been with a girl that has cheated! Just the thought of her having sex with another guy when she is my girlfriend.

    Feel bad for you though as you have found out at a time when you are both now in love!

    4/5 month in you must have some idea that its getting serious! I think thats a bullsh*t excuse to be honest.

    Its not like you was together for a few weeks or a month.

    My view is cheating is wrong. I cant say ive ever been cheated on however i know i wouldnt want to be with a girl thats cheated on me no matter how much i love her. I think it would kinda make me hate her.

    We cant tell you what to do, just give our opinion. If you love her enough to stay with her then good luck and she does genuinly sound like shes sorry.

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    Accept her sorry. Maybe that time she wasn't in love with you and is in the midst of confusion. And now finally realized what she should do. Listen to her if you do love her.

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