jp girls wasting my time .she want friends

[acslater]

Got a 2nd date yesterday. We walked around dwtn and had ice cream and then nIghtmarket.first date i didnt touch her we just talk at coffee shop. 2nd date.
we went to night market and taiwan fest. during the nightmarket i would touch on her and she reject it and later 10 min later touch arm on shoulder arm on waist and she reject it.
i paid for her ice cream and some food.=10dollar.
she tell me she got a bf. I ask her why she meets me and she says as friends. She shows me pic of her and her bf.she met bf in japan but he lives in usa now.
what a waste of time today.
She just meet me as a friend. i went direct approach her at library. . why she think we meet up as friends
She is a Japanese foreigner 4 weeks in Vancouver
I ask her why u don't like me and she said yes but as friend. I need a friend I dont need bf. i was looking at her as a potential gf . i was so excited the first few days since she text me back and we chatted. i really thought she liked me as a lover.

why didnt she tell me in the beginning that we are just meeting as friends and she got bf.
how can i improve so next time i dont meet a girl and she think of us as just friends but we are dating and potential gf/bf.
one way is by touching -arm around waist. hold hands but ppl say its too fast on 2nd date and all. so how

[BackUpOrGetStng]

She's a dumb cunt. Ignore all contact from her.

[searock]

how can i improve so next time i dont meet a girl and she think of us as just friends but we are dating and potential gf/bf.

Ask her if she has a boyfriend. If not, ask her on a date, using the word "date". It's not that hard.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

I never use the word date. I just ask her out somewhere, and then try to kiss her at some point, preferably before the end of the date. Works for me.

[searock]

Not all girls are OK with kissing on the first date. It doesn't mean they aren't interested, just that they prefer getting to know the guy a bit more, before becoming physically intimate on any level. You may not be interested in these women (you may think they are insecure or whatever), but the OP clearly doesn't mind, otherwise he wouldn't have gone on a second date with the girl he talks about. So I think the best way for him to know whether a girl is interested is to ask her directly on a date, using the word "date", laying the cards on the table straight away.