So there’s this girl... Our backstory in a nutshell is that we liked each other a lot about a year ago, and were like a step below dating for a few weeks. It didn’t work out, I think mainly because I am really shy, and I’m not exactly the most interesting or exciting guy to be around. We had sex once in that first run together, and slept together a few times.
About a week ago, she ended up spending the night again. Nothing happened, but it stirred up her interest in me again for a bit. We ended up having sex again exactly a week ago. Since then, she been on and off in texting me frequently, and texting me things like “I miss you” or “I really wish you were here”… stuff like that. But from what I’ve been lead to believe, she’s only interested in having sex right now. I should point out she’s not a slut or anything by any means.
I really like her. I can’t stop myself from it. She only the second girl I’ve ever been with, so it’s having an effect on me. She has so many qualities that I love about her, and a lot of things that I look for in girls. But I know that we probably wouldn’t work out as a couple, so I haven’t really been pursuing that as much, and from what she’s said and how she’s said it, she isn’t either. I’m OK with that.
This is the problem… I have noticed that my roommate (and best friend), has been talking to her a lot recently. They haven’t done anything, and I know at one point she didn’t even like him very much. But she’s very emotional and those things change with her. The thought of them being together at all is making me sick. Everytime he mentions her name my stomach churns. How do I deal with this? Granted I jump to conclusions way too easily, and she is someone that loves to text/talk… to like everyone, but they were talking at like midnight after she told me she had a big day at work tomorrow and couldn’t come down. I am thinking about possibly bringing it up tomorrow sometime… but I don’t really know how to, or what to say. I feel so sick right now because of it… My appetite had been shot the past couple of days.