I posted this in the Advice forum but i realize that what I need is a woman's perspective as only a woman would know why she is saying and doing the things that she is doing. If you could please read the following and reply to me, I'd very much appreciated. I am looking forward to comments from girls/woman that KNOW because they have been there or just have good insight (vs just random comments and/or guesses). Thanks!

Looks like I can't post links yet but the title is "What Is She Doing???" in the Advice forum.