I aksed a girl to marry me got a yes and next day I didnt call her or contact her

[Mcenzie]

I dont know why, was in shock i guess.
How would you have reacted?

She ended up telling me she had a guy over the next night.
And saying she didnt want the stupid ring it had lost its charm.
Then we talked and she said she needed time to think.
Then we talked more and she then said she was confused about her ex and me.
Then we talked and she said all she is focusing on now is herself..school just started and work and she doesnt wanna think about anything else right now.

Any advice?

[searock]

She isn't interested... move on.

[surfhb]

I dont know why, was in shock i guess.
How would you have reacted?

She ended up telling me she had a guy over the next night.
And saying she didnt want the stupid ring it had lost its charm.
Then we talked and she said she needed time to think.
Then we talked more and she then said she was confused about her ex and me.
Then we talked and she said all she is focusing on now is herself..school just started and work and she doesnt wanna think about anything else right now.

Any advice?

I dont get it? People discuss marriage before you actually ask. She just up and changed her mind overnight?

[MaidenMinx]

I don't understand why anyone would want to marry someone they have never lived with. As my great gran used to say "you never know someone until you live with them. And even then you don't know them"

[InYourFACE]

The way you talk about her doesn't sound like you know her well and there is a great friendship there to marry.

I think you just want to marry and very fast.

So i think he made the right decision.

and keep talking doenst help. she told you no more then 100000000000 times but you dont want to get it.

She dont want you! so move on

[nytingale51]

Marriage is such a big step in anyone's life. and we're talking about a life changing decision. You have to be prepare mentally, emotionally and financially. As for me, maybe she needs time to realize what she really wants in life. And since you said that she has a lot of things to deal with now, like schools, job, and even her feelings now is clouded; it just goes to show that she's still not ready to face that life. I think it's better that she changed her answer now than later regret it when you're already married.

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[sadie_genie]

Neither of you are ready for marriage. You reacted as you did because you are not sure. She didn't want it either.