Need Ex boyfriend advice! Please.

[Dreagiselle]

So long story short. Dated boyfriend for about 2 years lived together for 6 months. During that time we lived together he became distant which then made me feel very insecure an unwanted. So I started to drift, and eventually moved out. Soon after I started hanging out with a new guy. My ex naturally got upset. We tried to rekindle things but I made things worse by hanging out with the new guy as well. In the end it blew up in my face and my ex wanted nothing to do with me. A few months go by and he gets a girlfriend. Meanwhile I go through some really hard times dealing with this break up.

Now 1 yr and a half later I find out he and his girlfriend are no longer together. So many feeling start to come back and I end up drunk calling him to hang out, surprisingly he decides that would be fine. I end up going to his place and we talk and end up kissing. Which then leads so my emotional self to telling him I still miss him and care for him, he doesn't say anything back but instead continues to kiss me. He tells me I should stay at his place because I've been drinking. We cuddled all night and in the morning I kissed him and left. It's been about a week and I havnt heard from him nor have I tried to contact him. I fear that I was just a rebound and he was just in a vulnerable state. But my problem is that I still very much care for him but don't think I stand a chance because of the past. Any advice on what to do??

[InYourFACE]

I think you and everybody need to start reading some dating books(christian)

Maybe starting with : We have only just begun ,writer: Nancy van Pelt.

Cause the first years are a period where people are crazy in love and everything is nice
but after that feelings go away and people start acting normal.
So its normal that his feelings are over.

But when people are in the break up process they dont give themselves the chance to heal .
they jump to their exes and say this miss them.
But missing the person is part of the healing process of a break up. so you need to go true that and
stay away from him. till its no issue more for you.