Quick Facts:
Me and my girl have been together a year and 2 months.
She swears up and down im her everything nd she loves me so much etc.
I really care about her nd dont know wat too do, (otherwise i wouldnt be on this site asking advice from strangers)
We are both 17
Before me she was with her ex for 3 and a half years from ages around 12-16.
He was her first real boyfriend, Her first love, Her First (and only besides me) .....etc.
Claims she had too walk away from him because he changed ,wasnt the same amazing guy he was during most of those 3 years, was going no where in life, etc.
Throughout our whole relationship, she has never brought him up, however for the past few months he has been the topic of many depressing talks. Why? Because I always bring him up assuming she still has a thing for him or something like that.. I know, i have deep insecurities about this guy and their relationship..
Recently she confessed over the summer she saw him and had a brief conversation with him, but never told me. She says she didnt think it mattered enough too bring up ... What too think of this???
Last month we got into this huge fight nd the next day I fought her ex.
Couple days later she tells me she decided she has to hit him up one more time and get her "closure" she never got. She broke up with him? What closure does she need?
Well i suppose she had her conversation and although it actually took place BEFORE she told me she was going too shoot him a text, she sent me pictures of the messages too show me what they talked about...
See attachments below:
(If pictures are too small I inserted notepad file that has all the messages typed)
Questions:
Based on your "expert" opinions and past experiences, how would you interpret her feelings for this guy?
I am sure she had a much bigger and closer bond with this guy than me but she swears she loves me now and is completely moved on from him.. Is she still hanging on by a thread or have feelings for him??
Could I be a rebound?? I saw the way he responded too her and it looked like he didnt want anything to do with her... She however was being pushy and clingy for answers. Does that mean anything?
Ultimately I know I do love her and want to be with her bad, however if there is still something there between her and him then I cannot be involved, I have told her many times if she needs time to think about this and she refuses sayinng she know she wants and needs me and is over him. Should I believe her?
Is it mee or does it look like what she wanted was too have some sort of last heart to heart, sad talk where t hey let all those feelings about the break up out...?
Did she want another chance with him??? She said she missed him...
Plenty more details if you have any questions please feel freee and I will elaborate as clearly as i can.Attachment 1567