Hi i have been flirting with this guy at work for ages and him back. We recently the other week sort of agreed that we both wanted to start a relationship. We had been toning down the flirtations at work as to stop tounges wagging and were even sort of seeing each other outside of work for the first time. I tell my best mate everything she knows all about this bloke but knows nothing more than hes a great collegue that i share many a laugh with, although she could relay every single one of mine and his conversations and flirtations. Today she asked me outright if i was going out with guy. I immediatly turned around and denied everything and just said that we were very good mates and great collegues. This may have made her jealous if i suddenly turn around and say i have a new best mate, maybe she thinks i am ignoring her and she thinks i see her as second best after him???But now i relise that i need her help and need to let her know what is going on. How do i tell her that i am sort of seeing this bloke but i still see her as my best mate and probably the only one that i can trust with such news. I have so much that i need to tell her and need her to help me with that i need to let her know. What is the best way to do this? Was i wrong denying this bloke and i am very close? Please help - very confused.