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    How long to wait before texting back?

    I've noticed that if you text 1 or 2 minutes after you received the text, you usually get a shorter response (1 word response ; wow, lol, or just a smiley face).
    However, I've been "experimenting" a little on this girl I like, and I've been waiting 15 minutes before texting back, and sometimes 4 minutes after getting the text to mix it up.
    It seems the conversation is a lot better, and shes not sending anymore one word texts..
    So what do you ladies think? Do you get a little excited if you get a text from a guy who doesn't text back immediately which would be about 1-2 minutes, or do you absolutely find it annoying when a guy
    waits 15 mins aprox?

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    1. Texting is not a conversation.
    2. Grow up and give her a call so you can communicate with her by what we old farts refer to as 'talking'

    Oh and how long to wait. 5 minutes and 27.997 seconds. Was that a stupid answer? Yep but then it was a stupid question.

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    Girls don't believe in talking on the phone. They like making guys wait anxiously; it's all part of their game.

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    LR you're like a broken, retarded record from a Virgin Megastore.

    TommyH, stop playing games. Answer whenever you feel like answering, what you're doing is just plain silly. Just make sure you don't reply with a one-word message to a long message... if you do that, it's like you don't really care about what she has to say, nor think she is worth spending the time to think about a decent response.

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    Lol, mad?

    Anyway, girls prefer a guy who's an ace with texting over a guy who has the balls to call. Girls like the convenience in texting.

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    I actually agree - I prefer texting over calling, unless I'm already in a serious relationship with a guy. Then again, I don't like talking on the phone in general, not even with my girl friends or my family. So I don't know if it counts, and it's DEFINITELY not because I "like to make guys wait anxiously".

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    Sure, but I don't know if you're a chick or not and that makes a huge difference.

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    Cool way to get searocks pic bro, reverse psychology, lol. She wont fall for that, again.

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    Lol, I don't care to get searock's pic. It'd probably just confirm my hypotheses anyway.

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    If you want it, just ask, and I'll send you it. I've had her on facebook for years. She's a broad for sure, judging by her tedious timeline, and holiday pics.

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    Lol, you don't have a FB and she didn't send you a pic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TommyH View Post
    I've been "experimenting" a little on this girl I like, and I've been waiting 15 minutes before texting back, and sometimes 4 minutes after getting the text to mix it up.
    This confirms what I've suspected all along: boys are dumB.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    This confirms what I've suspected all along: boys are dumB.
    Wrong. Tommy is quite on the ball; girls like the "mix(ing) up" of things. Girls like overanalyzing every minute detail and in text it is especially critical.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Love'sReject View Post
    Sure, but I don't know if you're a chick or not and that makes a huge difference.
    Oh, come, on. Not this again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by searock View Post
    Oh, come, on. Not this again.
    Well, I really have no way of knowing.

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