Did I do something wrong?

[Risen]

Hey,

I understand that many people think watching "porn" and getting off to it is acceptable in a relationship, but what about say, nude photos of people uploaded to websites like 4chan? Like "ex gf" threads and peoples leaked "self taken" photos.

I mean, my girlfriend says she hates people that would get off to girls facebook photos and the sort, and after I got off to nude photos of girls on 4chan I started to worry that I may have done the same thing that she hates.

I didn't mean it because I didn't realise that would constitute as the same thing, and now I'm worrying about it. If it is wrong should I tell her I did it - because now I realise it might have been wrong I wouldn't be doing it again.

Is what I did unfair to my girlfriend?

What do yous think?

[michelle23]

I think its perverted tbh. leaked photos? Is that not illegal?

[Boisdevie]

Whatever you wack off to is none of her business. And provided its not illegal it's nobody elses business.

[bearz]

I think its perverted tbh. leaked photos? Is that not illegal?

If some girl is stupid enough to take nude pictures of herself and puts them on the internet or sends them to other people, it's her own damn fault. As long as she's 18 I don't see it as being perverted and if the pictures weren't stolen, nothing illegal about it - at least I don't think there is.

[michelle23]

lol I know what you mean but these pictures are being put up of exes and the girls no nothing about it.

[sbinlove]

Ask yourself if you would be upset if she was doing the same. If the answer is yes than you are doing something wrong.

[surfhb2]

Jeez....why do people feel the need to share every detail of their life with the SO?

[Risen]

It's moreso just because she made it clear she is against that stuff, and now that I might have done it i feel like it might be dishonest not to tell her?

Or in my situation would you just look at it as I realise it was wrong, won't do it again so just forget about it? At the time of doing it I didn't realise xD

[michelle23]

just forget it and dont say anything.if it makes you feel bad, ashamed or guilty - dont do it.

[Wakeup]

It's moreso just because she made it clear she is against that stuff, and now that I might have done it i feel like it might be dishonest not to tell her?

Or in my situation would you just look at it as I realise it was wrong, won't do it again so just forget about it? At the time of doing it I didn't realise xD

Why are you hell bent on causing yourself grief. You have an insecure gf who doesn't like you wanking to FACEBOOK GIRLS. You didn't do that so don't bother opening up this can of worms by confessing what you do in your own private time. If you confess every bloody thing she doesn't like, you'll be untrusted and deemed unstrustworthy and that will be the end of your relationship. If you feel guilty, just delete all traces of your comp history and don't do it again. If you want nice naked pics then go to MetArt and show her them and get her freaking permission to wank to who she deems is uglier then her.

JHkeeeerist.

[Risen]

Okay I guess I have held back a bit here, before she said about the whole Facebook thing I had done it at some points of our relationship - believe me I know how that seems and is really weird and embarrassing.

And when she said she is so against it I felt awful and admitted to her that I had done that which caused a massive problem between us. And since then I haven't done that Facebook thing because I know how she feels about it - and how other people feel too. The only thing I've done is that 4chan girls pictures thing because I didn't realise that could count as what she said bothers her. And now I feel like I've betrayed her trust cause I done it after that whole problem before. I genuinely don't realise which is awkward.

[bearz]

So you thought that in this situation pictures on Facebook are different than pictures on 4chan? WTF!

[Wakeup]

Yes he did. Whats your point.

[bearz]

Yes he did. Whats your point.

I really shouldn't have to point that out because it's obvious in his case. But since you're asking:

Guy jerks off to pictures on Facebook, girl says she doesn't like it.
Guy then proceeds to jerk off to pictures on 4chan, because he thinks switching to another web site makes it ok for his girlfriend.

[Risen]

Uhmm I just never really thought about it, I just saw it as naked girls that I don't know and never will know = porn sort of, even though they may be leaked self taken photos I guess.

Whereas people on facebook are self taken photos too, but intended for social purposes.