So I tutor this girl for around 8 months. I am 27 and she is 21. She born and brought up in Canada to Indian parents where I came from India to Canada three years ago. I like this girl because she is average in academics, good looking, caring and listens to her parents. I made a move to her through a song ("And I wonder if I ever cross your mind For me it happens all the time ") from a social forum yesterday and her reply to that is "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best -Marilyn Monroe"
These are my issues now:
1. I totally hate this quote. It shows lack of respect for me, or don't care attitude.
But she is not that kind of girl as far as I know.
2. This is the first time I have a crush or interest. But I want a relationship for life long and not for fun. Also my parents started looking for arrange marriage proposals, for which I am not against.
3. For my initial move she took around 24 hours to reply and I felt so bad during the whole time.
4. now plan is to chat with her and make it clear. But should I wait for 12-24 hours to get back to her or do it immediately? Though I am a bit desperate I don't want to show her that I am desperate.
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11-04-13, 11:44 PM #1
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lol shes playing around with you buddy, cut it off.
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Does this stupid little girl know where Marilyn Monroe's attitude got her?
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Then have some decency and don't get yourself involved with a girl that you'll emotionally engage and then leave for your parents choice for you.Also my parents started looking for arrange marriage proposals, for which I am not against.“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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12-04-13, 12:27 AM #5
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Wakeup, that's a classic Indian move. Don't try to take that strategy from him.
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^^^ Eff you ^^^ lolzzz
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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12-04-13, 05:40 AM #7
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Are you still tutoring her? If so, it's completely inappropriate for you to be having a relationship with your client.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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