Oh, so you haven't set a date... well, I'd say don't contact her again for at least 10 days, then PM her with something like "how about tomorrow at ___?"
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15-05-13, 11:09 PM #76
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15-05-13, 11:11 PM #77
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She also gave me her number, too, forgot to mention. But yeah, I agree that it's not a date. Still, no objections using the "I have a boyfriend" reason...
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15-05-13, 11:13 PM #78
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Okay, so text her to set the date, rather than PM her on facebook.
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15-05-13, 11:17 PM #79
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Okey doke. Thanks!
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15-05-13, 11:19 PM #80
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No problem
hope it goes well!
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23-05-13, 07:33 AM #81
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invite her to an event or something where you're going with a bunch of people
keep doing that until you get her to say yes and see if she'll bring a 'date' if she does she can introduce you to him
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25-05-13, 08:35 AM #82
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OK, so finally I texted her and her first reply was pretty enthusiastic. She used numerous emoticons in our brief text chat to set up a meet for Thursday. Now I am treating it as catching up but is there any chance this is actually a date and my overanalyzing, misinterpreting mind is mislabeling it a "meet" when it is actually a date?
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25-05-13, 04:34 PM #83
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If you never used the word "date" then it's not a date. When you see her, greet her with a hug (she is an old good friend after all), open the door for her... nothing more until you find out whether she's single.
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25-05-13, 05:16 PM #84
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i would suggest knock her on FB, like others said about the intro, try to talk about things you done with her, make a topic to discuss should help
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26-05-13, 01:59 PM #85
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Cool. Will do.
Originally Posted by searock
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26-05-13, 02:00 PM #86
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New plan: Besides meeting this girl and trying to get a date with her, I want to ask another good friend if she can set up a blind date for me. How would I do it and is it a good idea? I just want to try anything and everything. I am super desperate now. Going on 23 which means being young for only maybe 2 more years...so depressing. Need to live now before it's too late.
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26-05-13, 05:42 PM #87
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Sure it's a good idea :-). Just contact her the way you usually contact her and say something like "Hey can you set me up on a date with someone? Think of it as a birthday present :-P!"... if you're good friends it should work, I don't see why it shouldn't. Provided she knows someone who is available.
And we're going to be young at least until we're 30, don't worry ;-).
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26-05-13, 11:41 PM #88
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Dude! You are sad. Lol Originally Posted by YoungCosmo
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27-05-13, 12:01 AM #89
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^..well yeah, needless to say..
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30-05-13, 07:32 AM #90
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So...when I go for trying to set up a date and she inevitably makes up or actually has a boyfriend or contrives some other excuse, how exactly do I politely accept that?
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