I'd like to first say Thanks for actually having a forum like this .. it kinda gives a voice to people who are trying to solve the mysteries of relationships and assessing one in making any decision. Sometimes it may serve as just a way to share a load and say or acknowledge 'i've been through that' but it makes things lighter and puts things in perspective.. Ultimately it'll be up to myself and anyone else to make the decisions that matter but at least amongst friends you feel more informd and justified in any move u make for or against any relationship and that works out to be a big plus in anyone's life at any time .... I hope to share as well as to serve ... Thanks again