So my gf and I have been together for about 18 months. We're in our mid-20s and live together.
I'm going visit my sister this week who is home from college for just this week. She staying my parents house which is about 2 and a half hours from my house. My gf found out that she needs to get lump on her foot removed (not cancer or anything just pain). the appointment will get scheduled later this week or next week. I said that I would come back from seeing my sister for the appt, but now she wants me to stay the entire week (maybe see my sister one afternoon) because she is nervous about the appt. I feel like it's my only chance to see my sister that it's reasonable to go? She feels like I should be there for her because she is nervous.
Am I being a jerk? I feel like this happens alot where she is nervous and says she needs me to be there. I would always be there for her if she really needed me, but I don't think just being nervous counts.
I think it's like if she was in the hospital I would miss work to be there, but I wouldn't miss work to be there for her if she had a mild cold. she always says i should be there no matter what.