Hi,
Some opinions would be appreciated- I can't make sense of a girl I've been seeing....
Been seeing each other almost 3 months, everything was great, spending quality time together and apart, all seemed well. She goes away For a week, and comes back a bit distant - I put this down to stress and maybe wanting some space to get back to normal. After more cold treatment we had a talk where she admitted she felt she'd moved too fast, and hadn't gave herself enough personal time. I kind of saw her point having that she was very independent before me, so we agreed we wouldnt expect to spend every spare moment together - a date couplke of date nights went well. But it just seems like she's hot and cold with me, not texting back, not making any time to see me. But then if I do see her she'll hug me unprompted, cares if I'm off doing something, making sure I'm OK?
I almost feel like I've suffocated her? But I've been conscious not too, because I know she has commitment issues, so most plans made have been initiated by her - I'm conscious that I can run too fast with a good thing - but I'm certain I have not with her. I'm pretty caught up with her, but this treatment is really doing my head in - and I feel I just want to know if she isn't ready to continue rather that mind reading all the time and waiting round for some positive signals. At the same time I don't wanna appear pathetic and possibly blow it?
Opinions please :-)