Hi,
I wasn't sure where to post this as I am not in a relationship with this guy.
Here is my situation:
I am single. Over a year ago I met a guy (Dan) at work who is married with children. We became very close and there was always teasing going on and he came with me to work every day. I left over 6 months but we remained in touch and now I work across the street from him so we go to work together. Through him I became friends with a guy that works with him -Will who is also a family guy.
Anyways, I developed strong feelings for Dan kind of from the start which I know is wrong since he is married. But he was always there for me and we were always together. He and Will figured it out.
I have never met the wives.
However, it's Will's bday and his wife wants to go for his bday to this pub. Me, Will and Dan sometimes go out to that pub just the 3 of us.
I don't mind meeting Will's wife but I know that seeing Dan with his wife will be very difficult for me and I doubt I will have a good time, even though there is nothing going on between us.
I want to go coz it's Will's bday but he knows why I am not planning on coming. Dan asked me why I am not coming-not sure if he knows the reason or not.
Has anyone been in this situation? What would you do?
I will appreciate hearing from other people who have gone through this....it sucks having feelings for someone not available.
Thanks