Hi I have two marriages and had one child with each of them. I will turn 50 in Dec. I am now divorce and I got a boyfriend since April. He is 48 and has never been married and no children. He is secure with his own property and has a job. I do have my own property too. my kids are boys 21 yrs and 10 yrs old living with me. The 21 is living away. We got on really well and WE are both in love with each other. I did asked him on our second meeting if he wanted any children, he answered "if he meet the right person". But I am turning 50 in a couple of months and I don't really want any more. Since then, he continue stating that he do not want any children and never wanted any and don't know why he would have said he will if he met the right person. We has always use a condom but recently a couple of times he did not. I am a bit worried what if I got pregnant as I have been to the doctor and discover I am in the process of menopause but I could still have children at this stage. On a few of our conversation, I can tell that if I do get pregnant, he would love to have it. I recently think of getting the progesterone injection so I do not have to worry about getting pregnant again but on the other hand I found someone so perfect in my eyes and loves me to death!! so he says and his actions shows. So should I go ahead to please him and is it great to still have children at 50 when I feel like I just got my freedom back!! And loving it. But I do not want to make him feel like he is incomplete if he ended up with me and not have children in his life and has it on his mind. Would a man think so?? to prove his manlihood to be a real man?! How would I really know that he really mean it that he would be happy with me without children together? Would a relationship be more meaningful an flourish / lasting with children together? Would you guys think your children is someone that was the best relationship you had and not your partner? Having a child at least makes your life a more meaningful person in this world. or xo