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    Why did he say I love you then dump me later that day... through TEXT?

    My ex boyfriend had come to my place to come see me after weeks of not seeing each other. We were a bit distant communicationwise during those 3-4 weeks and we were both pretty excited to see each other, I was and from what he told me...he was too. He "couldn't wait." He ended up sleeping over that night. When he was leaving in the morning he kissed me and said "I love you" and I kinda freaked out so I responded with "what?" and he said "I love you...I've never said that before have I?" I nodded and said "I love you too" but I couldn't even look him in the eyes when I said it. I didn't know what to say. I really like him a lot but I just thought it was a little soon to be saying I love you so I freaked a little. About 4-5 minutes later he texts me "Did not mean to say that. I was feeling nervous and it slipped out." But "I love you" doesn't just slip out, does it? Later that day he texted me and said "I think we should take a break." I asked him why and he said he just wanted to be single again. I then asked him if there was someone else and he said "Well yeah and no." I asked who she was and he said she was and he said he felt that she was "better suited" for his personality. However later on in our discussion, he said he wanted to find someone who was more compatible with his personality. So I don't understand... was he cheating on me or not? It doesn't make sense. Did he break up with me because of how I reacted to him saying I love you? I don't understand. Everything seemed fine and then out of nowhere he just breaks up with me, through text! To be honest, I want him back but I think that's probably an impossibility at this point but at the same time I just want to get over this, I want to be happy again. I've been sad and crying for over a week now. I just don't know how to get over this.

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    Why'd you post this twice? Is it that serious?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starnique View Post
    Why'd you post this twice? Is it that serious?
    I didn't really know where to put it and I just want answers. It just doesn't make sense. And I don't know, I just feel broken. I don't know what I did. I mean I did everything I could to make him happy but I guess it just didn't work. And I just don't know how to get over this. I've tried everything to try and keep my mind off of it but nothing seems to have worked. I just think I didn't get the closure I needed, I mean he broke up with me over text. Like who does that?

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