Help me do the impossible. Get her back.

[LoveGuy2]

The odds are against me. I need any advice going foward. I posted before but heres the update.

Was with GF for about 2 years.
Lived with her for 3 months.
Plans on moving to Florida together.
Dumps me 2 weeks before the move.
Says moving was a bad idea and she doesn't see a future with me.
Instantly gets new BF and moves in with him 1 week later(Rebound?)

This is a pretty messed up situation. I wouldn't even be trying if I weren't so in love
with this girl, and I know she still loves me. We had an awesome relationship and I feel I can
make her the happiest girl ever if she will give it another shot. This is a mistake. There was no real reason for it to end.

The breakup was 1 month ago and we have hung out 3 times since. I want to focus on our last hangout because it's where I am at the moment.
At first, I said a couple things that made her tear up. I teared up too. I told her I was happy she found a good guy. Just being very honest and nice.
After the sadness faded, she started acting very in love with me like I haven't seen in a long time. She was reaching out to hold my hand as we
walked, cuddling, and saying how she feels so comfortable with me, and saying she wants to see me again soon. At the end of the night we hugged which slowly turned into kissing. After she texted me all night more than she had been lately.

Sounds great right? Well heres where it gets tricky. The problem is her new guy really is a good guy. He has more money than me, more social, and her friends already seem to love him (judging by Facebook). She has been doing alot of "showing off" on Facebook about her new relationship and how happy she is. She even posted a picture of flowers he gave her last night with the caption "idk what to say... <3". Their relationship has moved so fast already. And I would not even be surprised if he asks her to marry him VERY soon. Sounds crazy but trust me, this is how things are going. This sounds cold but I know she just loves the situation and attention shes getting all of a sudden. At the end of the day, I believe she still loves me more.

I'm not looking for reverse psychology, or tricks, or no contact rules. I'm asking to put yourself in this situation. Imagine you left the love of your life because things got a little rocky and jumped immediately to a better "situation". But you still love your ex. Now you feel torn. What do you do? I have a feeling this is going to be a long process. Let me know what yall think. My plans and actions seem to be working to at least keeping her interested in me still. But how should I proceed from here?

Thanks.

[ChocGirl923]

Ok' so you don't want the long version...Ok. First of all, she was cheating on you in the first place. The way she dumped you before the move and almost (if not) immediately was in another relationship. She's already drawing attention to the relationship like that's where she wants to be. He was there before you guys broke up sweetie. She made her choice. Then she dumped you...That doesn't mean she doesn't love you. She obviously feels bad for what she did. But not bad enough to leave her new guy. She's helping you grieve. She feels sorry for you because she knows she hurt you....Or if you want to sugarcoat it. Maybe shes doing it for the money, and position shes in right now. Maybe it's a "Come-up"...But if that's the case. Is that the girl you fell in love with? Would you really trust a girl like that???...Beware of the "OPPORTUNIST"!!!

[smackie9]

I'd stop being a fool and walk away.....

[TulipRose]

I wouldn't be so available to her - she'd soon miss you.
It's like she's having her cake and eating it (so to speak).
She needs to sort her head out as to what she actually wants.
Thinking the grass is greener when it always isn't...

She may very well not know what to do - doesn't (At the moment) want to lose either you or the new guy. It's been a month...in some respects that's not very long and the whirlwind and rose tinted specs will soon die down and she'll be left wondering what it is she really wants. And where she would be most happy.

[4 ratties]

I would cut all ties with this bitch. She hurt u so much and doesn't even care. Trust me. She's doing another guy, not thinking about you. Find someone worth your time