I have been with my bf for 5 months. Our relationship moved very quickly and I am sure that is part of our problem. He moved in immediately after we started dating. I know that is too quick and we shouldn't have done that but both of us felt so comfortable with each other and it was like we had known each other forever. Things were great for the first 4 months and then I discovered he was talking(inappropriately) with another woman. The things discussed between them were sexual and telling each other how happy they made each other and calling each other "baby" and "love". When I confronted him about it he told me they are just friends and yes that their conversations may have crossed some lines but there is nothing going on between them. I gave him the benefit of the doubt for about a week until I found out that he introduced her to his family. At that point I asked him to leave and told him that our relationship was over. He still insisted that nothing was going on with the two of them beyond a friendship and that he loves me and cares about me and wants to spend his life with me and refused to leave and is determined to make things work with us. Since he refused to let things end I suggested that we take a break from each other. He took a few days to decide that he was ok with that and only because our relationship moved so quickly. He also said that if we were going to take a break that we needed to talk everyday and he needed to see me everyday or at least every other day. That happened for the first week but now in the second week he doesn't text or call everyday and when I don't he gets mad that I'm "not talking to him". I also have not seen him for 4 days. We are 11 days into our 14 day "break". In my opinion he really doesn't care like he says he does or he would be here trying to make it work. When I explain that to him he says yes I do, I love you and want this to work. I don't know how to get him to understand that this relationship is over. I do love and care about him but I can't be treated without respect or be cheated on. How do I get him to see that it's over? I have told him. I have packed his things. He just needs to take them and leave but he wont. What do I need to do and why wont he let me go if this other woman is clearly the person he wants to be with? I've never had someone try and hold on to something that is clearly over. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.