Why the childish behavior?

[Zander1ni]

So i dated this girl for about 4 months. She cheated once and we have had many arguments over me being needy, whiny, bitchy, constantly wondering what she was doing, me being jealous etc...Well finally she decided to break it off and that we would remain friends and work on fixing things and even still go on our holiday to hawaii. So things were going well and i got whiny again about her not taking well to me being affectionate. This caused me to have a major outburst and it was the final straw for her. She has said very harsh and hurtful things since i pushed and pushed and begged and pleaded. Now she had told me not to contact her so i didnt for a few days but i wanted a few items back and sent her a a very pragmatic text she read and wouldnt respond so i texted her the following "What's your deal? I'm not trying to be friends, talk, argue or anything...in fact I don't really want much to do with you right now I simply want to get my things back and move on with life..." she didnt respond and blocked me on social media...so i sent this in the AM on facebook "This the last message i am sending about this but I would like to get my stuff back. Please respond in some way to let me know how I can do that. I am willing to pick them up from outside your house also. Just let me know thanks" and she blocked me on facebook.

I just dont get how someone can be so childish...I have accepted the relationship is over and told her. Im very hurt and it seems very rude when i ask very nicely that she decides to block me. what would be your next step? cut my losses be done and no contact her?

[dontaskme]

Cut your losses or take her to small claims court and sue her if you are really that desperate to get your stuff back.

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And she should block you because you are way too needy for her own good anyway.

[Zander1ni]

Cut your losses or take her to small claims court and sue her if you are really that desperate to get your stuff back.

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And she should block you because you are way too needy for her own good anyway.

Thanks i guess i will just cut my losses dont need to go to small claims court over a few things worth no more than 150$. Just so disheartened that things had to be this way but i guess in a way it is my fault. Its only been around a week or so since the breakup which lasted for 2 weeks so would it be worth giving it more time of and not contact and reach back out?

[dontaskme]

What's wrong with you? She already blocked you. She doesn't want anything to do with you. Are you obsessed with her or something? Geez!!!

[Zander1ni]

What's wrong with you? She already blocked you. She doesn't want anything to do with you. Are you obsessed with her or something? Geez!!!

Shes made it clear she wants nothing to do with me and not talking to me before also and then has un-blocked me for whatever reason I dont not know so at this point i think she is just trying to hurt because she knows blocking me drives me nuts

[Zander1ni]

Shes made it clear she wants nothing to do with me and not talking to me before also and then has un-blocked me for whatever reason I dont not know so at this point i think she is just trying to hurt because she knows blocking me drives me nuts

Well here's the resolution she said "You need to relax. Do you know you're coming off as a stalker weirdo..... You are like bi-polar. Like one day you're non stop creepily texting me and trying to follow me on instagram and liking all my tweets and adding me on Facebook. And then you are freeking out and going out of your way to contact me about a text book hahaha. Seriously, it's over. Move on.....you're not getting your stuff back and you never will. I threw it away because I hate you and you're a psycho. Go ****ing cry about it. I don't have time to deal with your bullshit nor was I ever going to mail you/drop off a ****ing book you don't use.....like get over it. It's a book n some fins like the way your acting is laughable....... Grow up and move on with your life. You don't need fins to do so.......You're out of my life and it's done. You're a huge pussy and so retarded......I regret spending any time with you and I actually hate your personality and everything about you. You're a shitty person. Go buy a new book if REALLY need it. You're a joke. NEVER contact me again you ****ing creep" and I replied with "I'm sorry you feel that way I'm not a shitty person despite what you say you can't put me down all you want and believe what you want I realize it is over and done. I'm sorry you have to stoop down to the level that you have I have only ever went out of my way for you. Have a good life I wish all the best to you and harbor no poor feelings. Good riddance I will NEVER CONTACT YOU AGAIN"

It's a shame people have to be so childish and rude....

[Zander1ni]

Well here's the resolution she said "You need to relax. Do you know you're coming off as a stalker weirdo..... You are like bi-polar. Like one day you're non stop creepily texting me and trying to follow me on instagram and liking all my tweets and adding me on Facebook. And then you are freeking out and going out of your way to contact me about a text book hahaha. Seriously, it's over. Move on.....you're not getting your stuff back and you never will. I threw it away because I hate you and you're a psycho. Go ****ing cry about it. I don't have time to deal with your bullshit nor was I ever going to mail you/drop off a ****ing book you don't use.....like get over it. It's a book n some fins like the way your acting is laughable....... Grow up and move on with your life. You don't need fins to do so.......You're out of my life and it's done. You're a huge pussy and so retarded......I regret spending any time with you and I actually hate your personality and everything about you. You're a shitty person. Go buy a new book if REALLY need it. You're a joke. NEVER contact me again you ****ing creep" and I replied with "I'm sorry you feel that way I'm not a shitty person despite what you say you can't put me down all you want and believe what you want I realize it is over and done. I'm sorry you have to stoop down to the level that you have I have only ever went out of my way for you. Have a good life I wish all the best to you and harbor no poor feelings. Good riddance I will NEVER CONTACT YOU AGAIN"

It's a shame people have to be so childish and rude....

any ideas why such rude behavior...she is bipolar is just doesnt make any sense

[milk&honey]

It's best to cut your losses and no contact at this point

[Zander1ni]

It's best to cut your losses and no contact at this point

I have obviously done that as this is just the last rude thing she said to me and basically the tip of the iceberg in terms or rude and childish things to say. granted I never said anything rude to her i did obsessively text her and call her and berate her with messages

[Zander1ni]

bump....any other ideas? take a look at the link for a little more backstory at the bottom of the thread [url]https://www.loveforum.net/ask-a-female-forum/91145-childish-behavior.html[/url]