Posted this in broken hearts but might be better for girls to tell me what they think:
So i dated this girl for about 4 months. She cheated once and we have had many arguments over me being needy, whiny, bitchy, constantly wondering what she was doing, me being jealous etc...Well finally she decided to break it off and that we would remain friends and work on fixing things and even still go on our holiday to hawaii. So things were going well and i got whiny again about her not taking well to me being affectionate. This caused me to have a major outburst and it was the final straw for her. She has said very harsh and hurtful things since i pushed and pushed and begged and pleaded. Now she had told me not to contact her so i didnt for a few days but i wanted a few items back and sent her a a very pragmatic text she read and wouldnt respond so i texted her the following "What's your deal? I'm not trying to be friends, talk, argue or anything...in fact I don't really want much to do with you right now I simply want to get my things back and move on with life..." she didnt respond and blocked me on social media...so i sent this in the AM on facebook "This the last message i am sending about this but I would like to get my stuff back. Please respond in some way to let me know how I can do that. I am willing to pick them up from outside your house also. Just let me know thanks" and she blocked me on facebook.
I just dont get how someone can be so childish...I have accepted the relationship is over and told her. Im very hurt and it seems very rude when i ask very nicely that she decides to block me. what would be your next step? cut my losses be done and no contact her?
Thanks for the help