I have no idea why she's as angry as she is.... o.0

[Regv123]

The person that I have a long distance relationship with is angry at me because I didn't send her a message when she didn't come back immediately. I believe this is the reason that she's angry with me, well, so that I don't put words into her or my mouth, here's the conversation. I'd welcome anyone's thoughts on this. I'm a bit obtuse to her at times as I don't always understand her passion about certain topics and I feel at times she doesn't understand my position on things as well anyhoo without further delay here's the conversation!:


[9:18:03 AM] Ashley: ???????????
[9:20:54 AM] *** Missed call from Ashley. ***
[9:20:54 AM] *** Call ended ***
[9:21:44 AM] Reg: ?
[9:21:53 AM] Reg: I called
[9:22:03 AM] Ash: I declined
[9:22:13 AM] Reg: Lol why?
[9:22:26 AM] Ash: I messaged you on skype 20 minutes ago
[9:22:47 AM] Reg: I didn't see it.
[9:23:10 AM] Ash: mhm
[9:23:18 AM] Reg: Oh you're just calling me to get my attention
[9:23:19 AM] Reg: Okay
[9:23:19 AM] Reg: Lol
[9:23:29 AM] Reg: Yay
[9:23:39 AM] Reg: So, call you on the cell?
[9:23:40 AM] Ash: im mad now
[9:23:49 AM] Reg: Why?
[9:24:14 AM] Ash: because you didn't try to message me
[9:25:02 AM] Reg: Hm. Well I know sometimes you have other things going on so I was being patient.
[9:25:31 AM] Ash: I kould have gone another few hours without you even checking to see
[9:25:55 AM] Reg: That's not true.
[9:26:47 AM] Ash: how long reg
[9:27:32 AM] Reg: Probably about an hour. It hadn't been an hour yet. It was almost an hour though since we last spoke.
[9:27:53 AM] Ash: I said be right back
[9:27:54 AM] Reg: I know that you have Amanda and the boys there too. I was simply being patient
[9:28:00 AM] Ashley: so you wait an hour to see if I even messaged you
[9:28:41 AM] Reg: Well, its happened before, where sometimes you say brb and it takes longer than you intentioned.
[9:29:01 AM] Ash: so you base it on a 1/100 thing
[9:29:10 AM] Ash: "hm I think today will be that 1"
[9:30:31 AM] Reg: Well its early in the morning and idk what you may or may not have to do for the baby and Adam (her other younger son).
[9:30:47 AM] Reg: Idk if they've ate yet or something else came up
[9:30:57 AM] Ash: again so you base it on a 1/100 thing
[9:31:04 AM] Ash: you don't even check
[9:31:07 AM] Ash: jst assume
[9:31:12 AM] Ash: because you don't want to talk
[9:31:14 AM] Ash: that's find
[9:31:16 AM] Ash: fine
[9:32:03 AM] Reg: Its not because I don't want to talk.
[9:32:18 AM] Reg: You're kinda reaching with that hypothesis
[9:33:04 AM] Ash: like I said
[9:33:09 AM] Ash: you don't even think to check
[9:33:12 AM] Ash: take 2 seconds
[9:33:18 AM] Ash: to glance
[9:33:20 AM] Ash: right
[9:33:40 AM] Ash: because if you wanted to talk to me you would definitely not look to see if I messaged you after n hour
[9:34:54 AM] Reg: That's one way to look at it. I suppose me calling you back this morning and messaging you didn't mean anything?
[9:35:53 AM] Reg: That aside on sorry for not messaging you immediately and seeing of everything was okay. I was trying not to overreact and spam text you as I've done in the past.
[9:35:59 AM] Reg: I'm*
[9:36:04 AM] Reg: If*
[9:36:49 AM] Ash: that's just like murdering someone and saying "I suppose me not murdering someone the other day didn't mean anything?"
[9:37:04 AM] Ash: your logic is impeccable
[9:38:29 AM] Reg: That lends credence to the proposition that I wanted to talk to you.
[9:38:48 AM] Reg: Those are acts of wanting to communicate.
[9:40:15 AM] Reg: I can understand you being angry about it. I can't do anything to fix it as its already happened but to tell you mindset and how I was thinking at the time
[9:40:26 AM] Reg: My mindset*
[9:41:10 AM] Ash: reggie theres times when you throw out trying to sound smart by using big words and insert actual ideas that make sense. you don't have to prove your intelligence. stop trying so hard.
[9:41:21 AM] Reg: I'm sorry for doing that and unless something comes up with me that prevents me physically from being able to access the phone, I won't do that again.
[9:41:21 AM] Ash: we'll try again
[9:41:23 AM] Ash: that's just like murdering someone and saying "I suppose me not murdering someone the other day didn't mean anything?"
[9:42:28 AM] Reg: The context of that situation is different
[9:42:46 AM] Ash: no its not
[9:42:49 AM] Ash: you do something wrong
[9:42:56 AM] Ash: then say you didn't do something wrong earlier so itrs okay
[9:43:00 AM] Ash: it's*
[9:43:38 AM] Reginald : Okay. So, I don't want to argue about this and I'd rather find a solution to the problem
[9:44:05 AM] Ash: okay goodnight
[9:44:13 AM] Reg: ?
[9:44:41 AM] Reg: So, I want to find way to fix things and you don't want to talk about it?
[9:47:30 AM] Reg: Ashley, I've apologized and simply want to correct it. We can spend time arguing about it or find a way to help this not happen again
[9:54:27 AM] Reg: You're not going to talk to me?
[10:05:51 AM] R: Well, I tried to call you just now
[10:06:42 AM] R: I don't know what else I can do or say to remedy the situation other than apologizing and ensuring this doesn't happen again.