Ok so me and my Ex broke up at the end of this past September, we were dating for 7 years, we broke up once before and we were broken up for about 7 months before getting back together and ultimately breaking up again about 4 months ago. SO when we broke up we kinda drifted apart in the summer, we took separate vacations and it seemed like we were on different pages. SHe messaged me one day to say that she didnt think this was working anymore. We never saw each other after that message we kinda left it at that, no exchange of stuff or even any explanations. We hadnt had contact since that day. Until on Friday, day before vday she messages me apologizing for just walking away and saying that she at least wanted to give me some of my stuff back. I told her it was okay and that she could drop it off at my place with my mom. She said she wanted to drop it off when i was there but in a not so obvious way. We texted for about 3 hours that day just catching up etc, and when I said that i was going to a music festival close to where she lives in july and she said she would like to go too if she could find somebody to go with her , maybe a hint maybe not. Anyways I dont know why she messaged me and I dont know where this is going, this is almost exactly how we got back together last time and I dont know what to do? We have had zero contact since the end of September even though she had wished my family a merry xmas and sent them all texts except for me, the weird thing is i was thinking about her alot lately and was gonna send her a msg or a letter telling her how much she meant to me and how i just got laxy and thats why we had broken up. Ultimately i just stopped making an effort and i took her for granted. I know shes still single cause, I myself just broke up with a girl i had been dating since December, what do I make of all this?