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    Sticky situation with 3 potential girlfriends

    Hi everyone (especially all you helpful women!),

    Im a 20YO, business student at Uni, and fairly normal fun loving, well humoured and mannered guy.
    I need some advice about choices and dating with 3 different girls, from now on Girl A, Girl B, and Girl C.

    Girl A i went to uni with last year, is 19 (same year as me), we had a little bit of a thing for each other and hooked up (not sex) in august last year. 2 weeks ago we went out all our uni friends to a club and I ended up hooking up with her again, but havent really talked/messaged each other since them.

    Girl B i used to go to primary school with, is 19 (same year as me) and hadnt seen her in about 4 years until the other week (when i bumped into her at the club I went to with Girl A and uni friends). Since then we have chatted and messaged each other heaps, and are hanging out for coffee next week and im going to see if she wants to go out for dinner too. One issue is that apparently she was very close friends with Girl A at high school, (the girl i hooked up with two weeks ago).

    Girl C I was with at Uni last year, she's 22 (turning 23) and very attractive (she was a model for a major energy drink brand). She went back to her home out of state for the second half of last year, and was living down there, so i didnt think i would see her again unless I went down on vacation to see her. She messaged me the other day and said she was coming back to live in Sydney and was so excited to see me again. I had a huge crush on her for the whole first 6 months of last year but didnt ask her out romantically, but now that shes coming back into my life I dont know what to do.

    I know that Girl A and Girl B are interested in dating, but dont know if Girl C is interested yet. Inside I think that I should ask Girl B out, because Girl C is probably a bit out of my league (im a 7.5, shes a hard 10), but obviously still have feelings for girl C.

    Please give me some help/insight?!

    P.S. any advice on who to date or what we should do for dates would be appreciated.

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    So people probably won't like my reply but here is what I think. Take all three of them out on dates, separately of course, and see which one you have the best connection with, past the physical feelings. One should stick out to you as the one you have the most in common with and that's the one you should pursue. If they ask if you are seeing anyone else be honest with them! Say you are dating around right now hoping to find someone to become more serious with, or however you are feeling. I hope this helps!

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    All of this is hypothetical because you've yet to ask any of them out. Why don't you put your money where your mouth is and actually see if ANY of them are willing to go out with you.

    P.S. "hanging out" doesn't count as anything other then what guys and girls that have been friend-zoned do so step it up to an actual date and get to know these chicks and see if they even want to be with you as more then a platonic buddy who is a good humoured friend.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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