Hi everybody . im seeking some answers in here, not because it really matters anymore but i can't seem to put my thoughts and my wondering to rest ..
the thing is i recently had a long term realtionship, me myself is from Denmark , and the guy was from colorado. we met last summer and things went crazy from there..
the things is i recently found out he had been texting this other girl from denmark. and i asked him how he knew her ? and he told me he met her two years ago on a bar, but they were just friends now.. and im like okay ? what can i say , it bothers me but he did meet her before and he told me it was two years ago he even had any interest in her.
but then i saw some text he had been texting her last summer the first week we met about how he had met this girl ( ME ) but was more intrigued by her , and she nicley rejected him because she told him she met a guy, and that was it.. then i discorvered they had been texting while me and him was in a relationship . where he would be telling her how he was horny all the time , and how he have had dreams about her and calling her pretty stranger and stuff like that.. so i confronted him about the fact the last summer he was interested in her even more then me ! and that he told me it was two years ago !!! i also found out that while he was visiting me here in denmark , he had been texting her to meet up for a cup of coffee twice. but she was too busy ... and finally i contacted the girl to hear what was going on ! she told me they NEVER MET !! he found here on a dating site last summer when he met me and he still kept in contact with her .
and i had to have a huge fight with him to get him to delete her but he wouldnt , so the sweet girl understood me and she deleted him ! ...
We broke up after this whole episode , also because of some other things...
he still says that he never had any intentions of getting it on with her or any emotions towards her other then friends.. but i also know that after she deleted him from facebook he have been on her profile looking ???
Am i overreacting guys ?? seriously what was going on in his head cause he wont be honest with me and i cant stop wondering ...