Can i have a male perspective on this PLZ... what would u do???

[Dawnie76]

I’ve been dating this guy i met on POF for 3mts now. We see each other about once a week due to work and we both have kids. We hit it off straight away and i instantly felt so comfortable with him. Initially he asked me out first few times and then ive been doing it since. We chat/txt evey day, he has been to me a few times now but i’ve never been to his. In the begining i didnt have a problem with him still being active on the site cus it was early days, i was still on there too.
We slept together after about 5 dates and it just felt right but neither of us mentioned about being exclusive, i think we both took it we were only seeing and sleeping with each other, at this point he was still active on site but my time on there was becoming less.
Then last week we went out he came back to mine, we slept together again, he went home that nite, he txt me as usual to say he got home, we said we both had a lovely nite, then good nite to one another. Literlally with in mins of saying good nite to me he was online, he disappeared for a few min and then came back up and now his profile was saying he was looking for a relationship, so it went from “nothing serious to looking for a relationship”! I felt sick and angry but said nothing… i calmed down and spoke to a friend next day and she was like, u need to say something. So i sent txt, saying i had a good day etc but im upset and i needed to talk to him, his instant reply was are u ok, whats wrong. So i said i cant speak now can he call me later. He did, when we spoke i said i was upset, i just seen his profile and how it changed and we were with each other hours ago. He was like im sorry, i should of told u that i changed it as he was getting lots of messages and girls asking him out, so he decided to change it!! I said i really like you and have knocked back dates from others too as i was seeing and sleeping with him, he said, he knocked back dates too! I was like would u be happy hidin ur profile as i am. He said he was trying to hide his but couldnt do it on his phone but when he gets a laptop he will do it, That was fine, i did keep a check to see if he’d come on and there was nothing for a few days and then it started again, hes been on and off for the last few days now. Im now in the position where i dont know what to do now??
Any suggestions on how to deal with this, am i just wasting my time and should i just move on??

[Showmesomelove]

He's still online looking for someone new. What other reason does he have to still be on the site?
Sorry x

[basilandthyme]

Yep, he's looking for someone new. You are Ms Right-now