Hi everyone,
I'm new to this website, but, I need advice. I don't really know what to do in a situation like this, and its bothering me a lot.
So I had a crush on this Korean guy, (first crush ever) and I still have a crush on him to this day. I really like him. But as of now, he's in the middle of Korean military training.
I confessed to him, a year and a half ago, that I liked him, his response was "You're weird" and he walked away. And after that, our friendship turned out awkward. The following semester after that confession, we found out that we had a class together, and he would always message me to save a seat for him. Things then started to go back to normal between the two of us, like what it was before I had confessed to him. Every time, during fencing, he would always be around me, standing next to me or want to fence me. After practice, before we'd part ways, he would hug me and we would go our separate ways. On the last day of fencing practice of that semester, we just sat on the floor next to each other and I laid my head on his shoulder and he patted me on the head.
Recently, on social media, he commented on a photo that one of my friends had taken of me, and after I saw the comment, I felt that I still really liked him a lot and also missed him. Especially during fencing, when I fence, a lot of these memories come back.
What should I do? Should I message him to confront my feelings? Should I ignore these feelings? What should I do? I've never experienced something like this before.
Thanks in advance,
AngelicFencer