Does anyone know if most guys want someone with a nice job though.

[asiangal555]

I have been getting to know a few guys though. I am interested in them ya. They do have a better job than me though. I mean make more money than me ya. I do like my job though. It seems like sometimes especially when we go out then they don't really want to pay though. Does that mean they aren't really interested though. Or they just want the girl to pay though since she has a job though. Even if I don't make as much money I think it's ok ya. I don't get why they would not really want to pay though. Anyone have advice on this thanks.

[smackie9]

I have my own set of rules to follow by: if they ask you out, they should pay, especially if it's an official first or second date. If it's a meet up for coffee or whatever, then you offer to pay for your own. If you start dating them on a regular basis, you split or alternate picking up the check.

Just because a guy makes more money than you, doesn't entitle you to have your dates paid for.