I have been thinking about how to work our budgets to continue long distance visits between my bf and I. I was thrilled he came up to see for the first time, but informed he may not make trip up again and would feel bad that would be travelling to his place, spending the money. After some discussion w/other people I came up w/a fair solution for the both of us. The ticket comes out to less then 200, so if both pitch for 1/2 that's less then a hundred/person every couple of months. Stay would be free as we would be staying as each others place and food could be split among each other. We wouldn't be going anywhere expensive and activities would be on a budget. I want some degree of expectations, so that I'm not the only one doing everything. Btw I have visited my bf twice before he came up for a visit.