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    possible reconciliation?

    Why would an ex-fling who did not want me and moved on with somebody else stalk me online with a fake Facebook account? She did this a couple months ago but I cut her out of my life in April so it's almost been a year. Wouldn't really say it's stalking because ethos was just one time but I have since mademy social media private.

    The reason I cut her ofa is She kept telling me she didnt/couldn't commit for 3 years and then got upset when she went through my phone and I was talking to other girls. even during the brief time we actually were seen each other she said she did not want to put a label on things. i don't think it was fair for her to be upset when she never claimed me in the first place.

    I know it was her because she asked me questions about herself and why we don't talk anymore. Even mentioned something specific she did with me. but she even but she even said some negative stuff about herself as she was posing as an old friend of hers.

    Now I've been told she realized what she had (how amazing I was to her) after she lost it and she misses me. But I'm wondering why she hasn't tried to reach out to me again or even directly. It could be the fact that I told this fake account that she took advantage of my love. I guess I was wondering why that has not made her reflect on how poorly she treated me and want to come out and say something.

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    What do you want?

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    I want her back. I miss her even tho I know I shouldn't

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    Quote Originally Posted by hershey1kiss2 View Post
    I want her back. I miss her even tho I know I shouldn't
    what are you currently doing to get her back?
    If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
    I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
    If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.

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    Nothing I'm hoping she eventually tries to contact me and then we can go from there

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    If you think that this is the best option then your issue is resolved?

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