Just a little confused and want some perspective as I've been out the dating game for a while, had the odd date or two in the last month, etc.
This girl started talking to me on POF and we bantered back and forth, I got her number at the end then I text her the next day continuing that banter to then ask her out.
We originally had our first date planned for last Thursday but she asked if she could re-arrange it for Saturday due to driving family to airport, so we did.
Our first date was a little nerve wracking, but we played mini-golf, went for dinner then hit the arcades and a bar.
She showed me all the positive signs, touching her hair, playfully hitting my arm, teasing me, etc and I reciprocated the physical contact. At the end of our date as I walked her to her car, we kissed for a good 20-30 seconds and she seemed to enjoy it. I pulled away to say goodbye and she went back in to peck me on the lips then playfully slapped me.
When she got back home she text me saying she had a really good night and I said the same.
The next day she initiated saying "Evening [my nickname] how are you?". So we bantered and I aimed to ask her out for the second date. She said she thinks she's free Friday and Saturday but won't know for certain until Wednesday, but so far she is. I agreed and ended the conversation.
Now, from Monday-Thursday this week she was on holiday within the country with friends at a cottage so I expected any contact with her would be delayed.
I reached out and made a joke, hoping she was enjoying her holiday. She replied three hours later (usually 10-15 mins she replies), however during those three hours she was uploading pictures of her holiday onto Facebook and sharing stuff. She told me she was enjoying it and had fun at the seaside and she asked how my day off was.
I replied three hours later as I was at work. This is a picture of the conversation following:
- Should I be worried that she didn't respond to my last message when all the other times I've ended a conversation, she's replied to them?
- It will be two days since we last spoke to each other, should I wait it out and let her reach out to me? She's initiated a lot and I did the last time
- Would going three days without speaking be too much? I'd like her to wonder where I've gone, create mystery, etc.
- If you were in my situation, would you think things were going good and nothing to worry about?
I'm just curious, because I'm still getting emoji's/emoticons, her asking questions and she offered me days when she's free but I've noticed she's not reached out to me much this week and I've been having to do that. Obviously she's been on holiday within the country, so that's probably a factor and I've tried not to message her too much and respected that. I am on dating websites talking to other girls, but I would like to continue seeing this one.