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Okay so I'll try to get straight to the point but still provide enough information for you to give me some advice.

So there is this girl that I knew all through out high school. She used to crush...

Umm....what the hell is this?

Have some confidence man. She has done her part, she's made it damn clear that she is interested in you. So call her up, make plans with her and just relax and try not to be too serious or desperate...

/thanks for the replies guys.

Its just I dont see how she could be so cruel towards me. I wouldn't ever intentionally hurt her...and it seems like the more i hurt, the more i want her back.

I just can't accept the fact that she said all of that to me..

Yeah you're right. Its just that after a year and a half of everything I did was for her and not for me, I don't know how to get back to how I used to be. And I don't really know how to be happy on...

I think the only way for us to move on is give it time. I know its now what you wanted to hear but apparently that is the only thing that can heal a broken heart. I'm in a very similar situation as...

I know that is the best revenge, but she makes it seems like she really doesn't give a damn about me or what I do. So its not like she would know if I am happy or really sad like I am.

Heh...this was just a huge slap in the face and lowered my self-esteem to an all time low, even though it wasn't that high to begin with. I feel pathetic and I honestly don't know how to stop.

My girlfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago, we dated for almost a year and a half. I broke up with her because she wasn't putting any effort into the relationship. A very reliable source told me that...

Completely agree with this. If you keep talking to her as much as you are, she is never going to get a chance to miss you man.

All the progress I made is gone. Completely gone. A few days back on what would have been our year and a half i texted her a simple "hey how are you doing" she replied saying "what the hell?" and i...

I'm sorry, but I really disagree with you. Just because she was busy with school, didn't mean she had to COMPLETELY shut me out. She came back to me after the first break up because I put on the...

Why must i break the no contact rule? I just don't even know what to do sometimes. I feel almost as bad as the day we broke up. I have been pretending that I didn't love her as much as I...

I mean I'd like to give things a real shot with her, just not now. I think shes got an awesome personality and shes very attractive. She has everything that I want in a girl. i found out that she got...

Well I hung out with the girl who was interested in me again. She was pretty shy but she told me she had a lot of fun hanging out with me. I'm still feeling empty and alone though. I think about my...

Her best friend started trying to contact me earlier, I told her I was doing fine, but i missed her at times. Why do you think she was doing this? Her way of keeping tabs on me?

Also, I think you...

She wants you because she knows she can't have you. You telling her that you are emotionally unavailable made her want you just that much more. Plus she seems a bit crazy so that is also a factor. If...

Update:

I was feeling really really down, I broke the no contact rule. I asked her how she was doing and explained that I didn't want us to ignore each other and that she was still important to...

Thanks again, I recently found out that this other girl (in my opinion is really gorgeous) is interested in me. While I am NO where near ready for another relationship, it was a very nice confidence...

Wow. Thanks, that was some awesome advice. Really appreciate that.

And what you say makes complete sense about her detaching herself from me. It saddens me that you saw that because I KNEW it was...

I guess so. I just don't see why she would come back to me after the 1st break up and then tell me all of her feelings were back...

Idk, im beyond hurt at this point.

Respect her choice. If you stayed together and you were the reason that she was happy, and she shouldn't be happy on her own, that is where the relationship will start going downhill. I know all too...

Oh yeah I understand the whole school thing, I mean i was able to make time for her and still get pretty good grades. And its not like my graduation took up the whole night, only like 2 hours.