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You seem to agree with my feelings on the subject. I'd say after 1 or 2 dates a text wouldn't necessarily constitute a cop-out or cowardly act. Neither of you owe the other much at that point,...

Thanks so much for your comments! I don't think this girl would have done well ending things in person, as she's social but used to be painfully shy. I wouldn't have expected that anyway. At least...

A girl I'd been dating over the course of 6 weeks ended things by sending a text message in the middle of my work day. This was actually the second time she ended things, and first time around (after...

Both of you opted for a type of cheating instead of confronting the actual issues within the relationship. However...flirting with girls in different states is COMPLETELY different from actually...

Agree with myers5061 here. No one can truly be in love with two people at the same time. There will always be more intense feelings for one versus the other. And she has no problem being in love...

Swan89...it sounds like the girl does have some emotional issues to work on. However, I think you both share the blame in this situation as is always the case in relationships. They're a two-way...

If a girl is interested she won't simply say, "I'm not available." She'll make it known she wants to get together another day. "I can't tomorrow night, but are you available later in the week?" ...

Hi myers5061...thank you so much for taking the time to respond! Obviously it would have been difficult to know it at the time, but I think you're absolutely right. As I mentioned above, it's...

What Smackie9 said...

Hi Smackie9...thanks so much for commenting. Although I wanted to believe otherwise, my first thought was exactly what you suggested. It just seems like you'd need to be a truly horrible person to...

I'm very confused and upset over a girl's hot and cold behavior. Would really appreciate a woman's perspective on this. Apologies in advance for the length of the post.

Yesterday a girl I dated...

If anyone else out there has opinions or advice on my situation, I would definitely like to hear from you. Thank you!

I would caution you to evaluate why you "don't want to lose him." Anyone who forces you to do something you don't like is not a good person. If your boyfriend truly cares about you he would let it...

Thanks for the response! To be honest I thought the same thing...thus my comment about not getting the full story from her. When the math doesn't add up it's usually because someone else is around....

Hi! There is a lot about this situation that is inappropriate, and unfortunately most of my concerns are with your boyfriend.

He is being disrespectful to his ex-girlfriend, because if she's...

Hi Everyone! This is my first post so try to go easy on me! I'm very confused and upset over a girl's hot and cold behavior. Would really appreciate your opinions, experiences, and advice.
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I meant that she wasn't emotionally connected to the idea of sleeping with you. Women tend to need that more than men (unless it's a total hookup), and if it's not there they can have a tougher time...

My totally honest feeling is she was just really excited to reconnect after so many years. You dated before so that connection, however small, will always be there. Because you went all out for her...

Hi Everyone! I'm brand new to the site and am truly looking forward to receiving and dispensing advice, and learning a lot from everyone's perspectives on life and love. Just for some context, I'm...