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Hello again,

After having some time to clear my head things were going well, slight issue with short two week dating scenario that went south but got back on top of it.

Well recently I have...

Hello again,

Well I was starting to get everything sorted, began to move on from my last relationship. Decided after a few months to start dating again, met somebody else who was nice and I got on...

They would be be very long threads, I have lost count the amount of times I have said something that to me was innocent and meaningless but usually resulted with me being hung up on, left standing in...

Nope, not abnormal, I enjoy them too. I quite like the whole teasing aspect of it, especially if done right but it does take a long time but that is not a bad thing :)

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I think it all depends on the girl, relationship and may other things.

Personally I have been in a relationship and it was 3 or 4 months before we first had sex, we had loads of dates and had seen...

I second that :)

I have said no end of stupid stuff which has usually resulted in me upsetting a girlfriend. Guys do have a tendency to say what comes into their heads as to us they are just...

Yet again you have pretty much got in bang on there. As per usually got he obligatory "Sorry for the other week text" from her, I am going to start distancing myself more from her.

I am giving my...

It would appear that the terms vary between the UK and US.

As with qwerty123, I have been on a few dates with somebody and we called them dates, the next step would be "seeing" them which is then...

Nope I agree with you on that one. I am originally from the south but moved up to the north a few years ago now. There is a noticeable difference between the two, it is true about the northern...

I would agree with that, in the relationships I have been in they have usually started by meeting up a few times then as things start going well and we start seeing more of each other exclusivity is...

I do still care about my ex which is the problem. I have no intention of going back as we tried that twice before and it never worked as things were exactly the same, she says she understands that I...

Seems like the best option, it was what I was trying to do.

Good question, she made plans to meet up with me to break up with me. I kind of knew it was coming as I was feeling the same way so it was a 50/50 kind of break up really.

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Well it has been a few months since I broke up with my ex, wasn't too bad as far as break ups go at the time though I suspect that I am about to receive the fallout soon.

Anyway, been...

I hadn't thought of her as some kind of crazy stalker, I was trying to be nice as I hate upsetting people but it is defiantly better to upset her and being straight and blunt rather than her get the...

A word of warning about asking him and seeing where it goes, do assume that he will know it is a date but you can flirt with him and see how he responds.

I am not trying to discourage you just...

You see that is a really bad idea, firstly that is not me, secondly it would have dire consequences as she is friends with a few of my friends and finally if she is harassing me now how much worse do...

That made me laugh :)

On a serious note, she does seem to be trying to force me to make a decision which has really pushed me away. It is clear she didn't listen to me otherwise she wouldn't have...

Hello,

Well I have been doing my best to get over my ex, been difficult but I think I have been doing ok but know it is too soon for me to look for something else.

The other week I was out with...

It's true, if she had somebody else then I doubt I would hear from her. I was not overly happy with her sulking with me for not being free on an evening she had nothing ot do and wants to get out of...

Firstly, I have told her that I can't see a relationship working between us at this time and she came to me with the intention of ending it and I said that I agreed for the same reasons, as I did....

Hello again,

Well it has been a month since I broke up with my ex, I have not been doing too bad myself. Been keeping busy, going out with friends, working, etc. I have had my moments when I have...

I have got to the end of what I can cope with, it is true that she is really upset about loosing me as she could have brought all this up when we were together and we could have worked through it....

Thank you for that, it is not easy but I have made up my mind. I did question if I had made the right decisions but I know I have.

I just had my ex call me as she was upset, spent a good hour on...

Thank you, you are 100% right.

Out of the two things I have going on then the new fun and exciting route does seem the way to go. I shouldn't feel guilty about something that just happened...