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Yes reeba, it was actually her who said once on an unrelated subject, that the people are most afraid of the unknown. I know I would feel better if I got to know them, but she says I make people...

That's the thing that I can't understand either - she says I can't join in the conversations and I'm making people uncomfortable just sitting around. But the thing is the couple of times I've been...

Hi all. My fiance and I (her:31, me:33) have been having these conversations for a long time now, but now it's starting to get to a boiling point, and I am unsure what to do, I'm starting to develop...

Thanks again wellami, I really appreciate your thoughts :) Her old friends live at about 250 kilometers from our current home, so it's not easy to throw a party, but yes, I suppose if I got to know...

Thanks wellami, don't be sorry for saying it, I needed to hear an outside oppinion, and you gave me that.

I am not entirely sure as to why I feel jealous of her friends. Probably partly because...

The thread title will probably sort of curb the answers - yes, I know possessiveness and clingy behaviour is very irritating, yet I would like to know your oppinion where can one draw the line -...

justa7: That is not true. It sounds corny and romantic, but it's just not what real life is about. Were you in a long relationship? (10 months in this case) Don't tell me after 1 year of almost daily...

I am really not sure about this guy and you, but overall sometimes a new game comes that's just so good it makes you forget absolutely everything. If that's the only thing, it's not your fault. He...

Maybe what you're missing is not topics, it's self esteem, you think you can't say anything interresting. Think about it.

Great, I think this could be the beginning of a beautiful friendship :) She doesn't seem to be like your ex girlfriends, and you seem to start to apreciate other qualities beside her face. You seem...

Everything was said above, but just to recapitulate: grow up, find more mature friends, and listen to your feelings.

I have just watched this video on TED: Helen Fisher tells us why we love + cheat. It's very interresting on its own, but related to the topic's subject the speaker says we humans have three major...

Let me guess: at the same time you are turned on by lesbians, because they apreciate what you apreciate. Girls usually like guys, we (men) are not repulsive. I am hetero, and I had problems wrapping...

He's clearly a hypocrite. Your only mistake was that you technically promised him to be faithful, even though you were not even with him, and he was with someone else. You haven't cheated on him, you...

I don't want to ruin your hopes, but you will rarely find a girl over 20 who's a virgin. So if you can't cope with your current one, moving on will only take your problems to your next relation....

...I would say to the above posters that he's a college grad, I doubt he would have so much trouble finding a job closer. We're not talking about an once in a lifetime opportunity in the 10 hour...

You can bring up your boyfriend casually, for example someone is hitting on you and saying he likes your eyes, you can say for ex. 'My boyfriend also thinks it's my best feature.' Or just start...

I don't see any reason to be worried, in fact it seems to me she likes you too, from your description of the first date. Don't be dissapointed by the canceled date, that is a perfectly normal thing...

One more vote for confident girls... if, as said above, it's not arrogance. A girl who dares to take the initiative is attractive.

This 'partying' personality of your bf can be his true one, and the shy guy you met was probably because of parental constraints - now after moving to uni he got loose, so he feels your personalities...

Art of Flirting ;)
You're welcome :)

Don't force to get a date. Just live your life naturally, and seek out opportunities to meet other people - not necessarily just girls, and not only your age group - they could be a link to someone...

I think he's more than just nice, and indeed he's starting to fall in love... Just my oppinion, take it with a grain of salt :)

Since you didn't just flat out ask him to have sex, maybe he didn't...

@all alone: The good things are worth the wait. I'm 32 and over my first marriage, so I know what I'm talking about :)
@mywitsend: not everything can be changed by either of you, but you are right,...

Thanks Gribble, that's a very good idea. I'm not really in this situation per-se, this was more hypothetical with practical uses in some other problem I have right now (which is more personal), but...