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Yeah as mentioned above, it depends on the guy - different guy different reasons.

Likewise, different for each girl too.

For me - if I'm kissed on the forehead, I find it really sweet and feel...

Now, I have to say the first thing that sprung to mind - was the "accidental" and "coincidental" happening to meet her outside her office block (as we have all seen in films) LOL

But yeah, it's...

Before making any decisions about going out with him or whatever - just note that if he was a professional, he would have simply ignored you and wouldn't dare (cos he could be fired and blacklisted)...

Personally, I would leave it. I know it's hard for you but take a moment for yourself and consider this: you've posted this up obvioulsy knowing that there is perhaps something wrong with your...

I think there's come a stage when it's very clear that you are both ready for a relationship / (if she's a girl like me) will be expecting you to ask her out. So your safest bet is to take it slow...

Well it seems those are the kinda girls who love the attention.

As MerryH has said above, just make sure you know whether they are single or not asap before continuing a conversation.

I see your point - but the atmosphere in the charity shop is just so relaxed - none of us, those in the paid positions act in a formal way. But I will try to be more careful.

However, I'm not...

bulrush - yeah I've never taken hugging to be a flirty thing, and so I never mind being hugged by people. But it seems from what others have said, that it's a flirty thing?

Love is not hindered by age gaps.

Basically nothing should be the worry if you really do like them. You only start to worry when you doubt the relationship and that's the last thing you want!

I think just by letting her know that you are avaliable to talk to when she needs someone to talk to is the best thing that you could do. Flowers might be very sweet but it might also show a sign of...

regdenied - ooo that's a good one!

Searock - That's great advice thanks. I will make sure I draw my line firmer with him.

Lemons - Yeah, I see your point. My worries is that I don't really know how to confront people when...

If you are unsure what to talk about after the general "hi" "how are you?" "good thanks you" line, then go for something recent or current or what you are comfortable (feel most confident) talking...

Depending on the girl and perhaps the situation as well, such a question can have different 'likeable' answers.

If she's your girlfriend - then she'll want sometime sweet.
If she's just a friend...

I've said many times - in front of him and other volunteers that he's like a bro and no more. I did once make it very clear to him that because of our age gap and me being still a teenager - that...

Well I don't wear extra tight skinny jeans, don't own any either, or low cut / flashy tops for that matter too. I'm more the outgoing tom-boy kinda girl who wears whatever's comfortable (jeans,...

Hey guys, just wanted your opinion on this:

Ok, so I'm a really 'touchy' girl who doesn't mind hugs etc etc - and I just believe it's a friendly thing. Friends describe me as a bubbly, happy and...

Agree with BackUpOrGetStng

Thanks malteser, but how I can put that statement across without making it ... er... very blunt or rude even?

UPDATE:
I've never with him outside of the charity shop (save one time when he...

As the above have mentioned - it's a safe place where there will not be a fear of loss. Arguments or falling outs in friendships can be amended but such things in love usually end up in a break up...

Hello to everyone reading this and thank you for your time!

Ok so I'm almost 18 (Jan next year) and I met this guy "John" who's 27 whilst volunteering for a charity shop. I only see him once a...