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I'm 23, he's 35... why does this matter?

Lost mine when I was 17 after dating the same guy for 3 months.
The right person will make you feel comfortable enough to take that step, don't rush it.

I'm sorry for writing a novel, but I've spent hours reading everyone elses posts and commenting, so I hope that someone will put in the time and thought to help me too....

I spared a lot of details when I first wrote this, but I'm going to add them now and see what anyone has to say...

My ex has a 2.5 yr old son with the most immature, dramatic and rude GIRL I've...

Don't wait to talk to her on chat... looks too desperate like you've been waiting for her to come online.
Just send her a message and tell her you enjoyed watching the ball game and would love to...

Well now that he hasn't had sex since the last time you slept with him (I assume), he's looking for an easy lay... not that you are easy, but he has already put in the effort with you. You've already...

Yeah the answer seems pretty obvious here...

"She says she will come back to me eventually."

Why would you invest all your love and emotion into someone who can just walk in and out of your...

You never actually said if you wanted to go back to your wife... A near 20 year age difference kind of explains why great sex is so important to you.

Of course things were great in the beginning, when he was making you fall for him. Now that you've fallen for him, he can be himself and treat you like all kinds of crap.

It's typical of an...

My advice:

Tell him you're simply not happy with the way things are currently and you will not continue to be his.. whatever you are without an actual commitment. If he still doesn't want to talk...

I think it can go both ways....
Sometimes being apart can help you learn to appreciate each other. Things may be different, as you both become more willing to resolve your issues in order to save...

You know what you want. You want Mika. It's not often in life that you find someone so compatible with you. You could have a lot of fun with this girl, and could be very happy not having to help FIX...

So they're identical.. and you're only super attracted to one of them? Lol. Just thought I'd point that out.
I'd say you should probably end your relationship with your girlfriend, since you're...

Definitely a hasty decision on your part.
Although if you weren't happy, you should just accept that what's done is done and move on.
Your breaking up with her because she didn't get this...

So let me get this straight...
You're okay with her taking TOTAL advantage of you, because the sex is good?
I'm sure after 22 years your wife would have loved for you to change things up and do...

Do you know of the mother's intentions?
I lived a very similar situation... only it doesn't sound like your baby mama is quite the psycho that the baby mama in my life is.
It was EXTREMELY hard...

My boyfriend told me he was 'falling in love with me' after about 2 months... I definitely didn't think that I loved him yet, but I was falling for him, and told him I was falling in love with him...

I'm 23, and my recent 'ex' of 3 years is 35.

18 though is just so young. Straight out of high school... so much to learn still.

I say move on and don't feel even the slightest bit guilty about it being because of sex.
Sex is way important... you want to know that you are wanted, don't you? You are so young, and able, lol,...

She needs to know he's cheating on her!!! Then she'll leave, and you can be there for her. Take it from there.

"I couldnt tell her because I dont want to be the guy who hurts her"

By not...

Then stop asking...
Take a step back and let him make the next move.

My boyfriend of 3 years and I just broke up. We've had some issues over the last 5-6 months, never fighting, but just simply being un-motivated and generally unhappy. We both still love each other...