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  1. i think you need to just like give him space. ...

    i think you need to just like give him space. what is the rush here? He may be thinking about what happened now, now that the hormones and adrenaline have worn off. but to answer your question, it...
  2. he is a bully and is mean to me for doing this....

    he is a bully and is mean to me for doing this. but when i see him being nice to other people, or knowing that he has had a girlfriend for four years and i highly doubt he treated her like this, he...
  3. because it makes me think, what is wrong with me...

    because it makes me think, what is wrong with me for someone to treat me this way?
  4. this has never happened to me before. we are 26. ...

    this has never happened to me before. we are 26. i feel very humiliated.
  5. Why does he have to act like I orchestrated this?

    I went out with and made out with Ben, a guy i know socially. Yes i like(d) Ben, and that is why I accepted HIS invitation and his "dare" to kiss him. So we made out and then that was it. but then...
  6. Pep talk / motivational words for putting myself out there

    Every time I actually work up the courage to put myself out there, I realize I am still crippled because of my past rejections and hurts. Even so much as texting a guy-not really putting myself out...
  7. I think if someone tells you they want to just be...

    I think if someone tells you they want to just be friends you should listen. but yeah i don't get her prancing around in her sports bra. It's possible she was being a tease. Perhaps she realized...
  8. Thanks!! I definitely will (if i ask)

    Thanks!! I definitely will (if i ask)
  9. I'm asking you people what I should say to him. ...

    I'm asking you people what I should say to him. one of the earlier people said i should follow up and ask him what he meant. And i never said i was angry at him. I just said I was GETTING...
  10. You know what I think I am prepared to ask him...

    You know what I think I am prepared to ask him for a follow up. I mean i put myself on the limb and I think I deserve a straight answer. I just don't know how to initiate this discussion. It would...
  11. You know what you are ABSOLUTELY right. I...

    You know what you are ABSOLUTELY right. I actually just wasted a good 10 minutes looking at his facebook (a big no no, yes I am aware) and there was these two photos of him (from before i met him)...
  12. Why? I had bad experiences. Been cheated on....

    Why? I had bad experiences. Been cheated on. Bullied. So im emotionally stunted and inexperienced. Have ugly duckling syndrome. So what if i am 30? Are you going to focus on that or try to help...
  13. Plainly because i fear rejection. And i told...

    Plainly because i fear rejection. And i told him my feelings and it had no effect. I guess he simy doesnt care. Why put myself thru unnecessary pain if his apathy will show. Like it apparently is...
  14. So being a tinder addict is a red flag?

    So being a tinder addict is a red flag?
  15. Not aware yet. But im trying to determine if i...

    Not aware yet. But im trying to determine if i even SHOULD be interested in someone like this.

    And btw, just curious, why do you say not a safe bet if he was aware?

    Ps ive actually thought...
  16. my crush is addicted to tinder. should i move on?

    I have gotten to know this guy gradually. After getting to know him and developing fellings i learned that he is active on tinder and dates several women a week. He even goes on there in the middle...
  17. yeah i guess i could contact him. now i am scared...

    yeah i guess i could contact him. now i am scared because i don't want to be a pest. but i guess i just found it interesting because something awkward happened between us before and after THAT he...
  18. I thought it was clear enough what it meant and i...

    I thought it was clear enough what it meant and i felt I didn't need it spelled out. i told him that I care about him more than a friend. I used that phrase "more than a friend" i think he...
  19. How is it that he has NO reaction to me telling him I have feelings?

    I told a guy friend I have feelings for him. He is kind of an awkward guy. His reaction was "ok." well i thought that meant he wasn't interested and that maybe he'd avoid me or be very awkward...
  20. Hi everybody. Sorry for the late update. She...

    Hi everybody. Sorry for the late update. She responded and said she didn't take offense. so it's all good.
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    Thank you - I don't think I ever denied being...

    Thank you - I don't think I ever denied being attracted to him though. I feel like it's coming off accusatory in a way like, you like him, admit it. Yes, i admit it. but also - I never posted at...
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    I'm sorry if I was being argumentative . i didnt...

    I'm sorry if I was being argumentative . i didnt mean to be. I was just clarifying. I am in a bad mood today, because i feel very rejected and alone. I feel like I am disconnected. so perhaps...
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    No i said I would LIKE to go on a date with him. ...

    No i said I would LIKE to go on a date with him. it was a typo i said "live" instead I'm not dying to. i just meant i'd go out with him to get to know him better. do i have a mega girl crush? no....
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    hahaha, NOOO! That is not what I meant. Firstly,...

    hahaha, NOOO! That is not what I meant. Firstly, yes, I would live to go on a date with him. But my comment about not being in love was about his presumptuous. I am still trying to figure out why...
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    But I don't understand why he is making these...

    But I don't understand why he is making these assumptions? I thought it's a bad thing? (i would not mind going out with him, but i'm hardly in love with him)
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