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yeah it could be the lack of foreplay...if you're not wet enough, sex can be painful. however, you might want to see a doctor just to make sure nothing else is going on. you shouldn't have to stretch...

In my opinion, you should just file the papers and move on. It would have been better if you had done this originally, but if you delay any longer you'll always be stuck in a vicious cycle of going...

yeah i agree w/ other posters...a 16-year age difference doesn't doom a relationship, but when the people involved are 20 and 36 i feel like the life stages that you are each at are just too far...

and i just want to stress that i didn't mean that in a negative way, like there's something wrong with you- this is absolutely not the case. there is nothing wrong with seeking help dealing w/ abuse,...

i get that you don't want to hear that you need professional help....but you need professional help. seriously.

i feel like her comment about you being a great guy "considering where you come from" reveals that she has a condescending attitude towards you and doesn't respect you as a person. this is something...

thank you!!! :)

yes, living with his family would be temporary- things are still somewhat up in the air and they might end up staying with other relatives, but there are some issues involved, in terms of the other...

thank you, i really appreciate your perspective. the worst part to face is that lack of independence.... he and i talked about it and he said he understood that it would mean a sacrifice for me, that...

thank you all for your great advice. i guess in a way he and i are both being selfish in the sense of each having our own particular hopes and vision for the future- which everyone has- it's just...

in my opinion what he did was wrong too- he should have at least had the balls to talk to you about it instead of shadily going behind your back. did they apologize or did you all talk about this...

thank you for your reply bulrush. no, he has always been super supportive and likes that i have career goals, which is something i love about him...it's more the family issue. he said i was selfish...

thank you for your reply. i would never want to make him choose between me and his family- i guess i just didn't think far enough ahead and we didn't discuss this as we should have. since we have a...

i will have to do some serious thinking about what i really want...i'm not involved in his family's immigration process, so it's not malicious or anything on his part- he just can't understand why i...

thank you for your reply. what you said makes a lot of sense, even though it's hard to swallow...i do love him, but he just comes with so much family baggage. it's not just the time/living...

hi everyone,
thanks for reading- i really need some advice right now. basically, the situation is this: my bf and i have been together for 5 years. all of this time we have lived in the same city,...

ummmm....i feel like you're totally overreacting. everyone is in a bad mood sometimes, and being in a relationship doesn't change the fact that, as humans, we all get in bad moods sometimes. unless...

hmm maybe it's just me, but it seems like you and he are both not satisfied with your current situation, and i feel like awkward situations like this are going to continue endlessly until you
make...

i agree, it's inappropriate for her to be on the site once she is in a relationship. plus i don't really see what would be "fun" about going on a dating site without looking for people to date.

it sounds as if you are both still thinking about each other, but there is no way for a relationship to move forward if you have no steady way to communicate. if you are interested in being friends...

you need to break up with this guy. there is no salvaging the situation. i understand that you are pregnant and it is difficult to be on your own, but do you really want to be with a guy who would...

yeah, if this post is serious, then it seems to be you who has sexual problems, not your husband.

did you try going to her place? i mean, are you sure that she's ok?

just my two cents, but i think you would be totally justified in asking him to cool down his friendship with her- he doesn't have to never talk to her, but i don't see why he needs to be spending...

thank you for your advice...a lot to think about. i am continuing to move forward with my career plans and i guess i will have to see how things develop in terms of our relationship and his...