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This is the best advice I can have I think. She told me that same thing the relationship became dull and we have talked about ways to make it more exciting again. I do think this could strengthen our...

I know but I feel like giving her a second chance because she genuinely seems like she knows that she wants to be with me now.

She actually went on dates with two guys. The first one she met at a bar shortly after we broke up. He suggested the trip and she wanted to go but didn't like him. The second guy she knew from before...

Oh and she isn't still caught up on the whole marriage thing from what she says. She is willing to wait for when its right. I hope that is true but I'll have to see how she reacts when someone asks...

Thank you basil for linking the other thread.

I feel the same way that she doesnt understand how much she hurt me. She knew I still wanted her back but I did make it clear that things weren't just...

To sum it up, me and my ex were together for 3 years and she broke it off. Its been a little over a month now and she decided she really does want me and wants to get back together and make things...

I try and move on but I cant. You hurt me so much by not letting me know you werent happy with me for years. You sat back an thought I would change. Well I cant change what I didnt know was wrong....

When my ex was single before me she got a vibrator and was reaching orgasm with it. When we would have sex she was dependent on using the vibrator to orgasm. So that's what we did sometimes before...

I know and that's because the story keeps changing. She keeps telling me more things and now I don't know what is the truth. I feel she tried to blame it on other things to make me not feel as bad....

So my ex broke up with me after 3 years and the reason at first was she didn't want to be in a relationship because she had a lot of issues she need to deal with on her own. Two weeks after we broke...

Yeah some people better at generalizing my views than I am. Haha

Well I guess I was a little like this guy in some since. My GF was skinny but didn't have a perfect body like you see on TV or magazines which I had no problem with I thought she was so sexy and...

Some peoples views of marriage are just jacked! "Free sex and cleaning" I mean come on you act like you don't enjoy sex or need to clean up things every once in awhile. I guess I'm not a caveman and...

Wow, you women are harsh. I think moving in together really does help get to know somebody. I lived with my GF and it was hard at first but we got though it. The reason we didn't get married is...

Well I don't feel sex is all treated equal. Yes sex is something you do when you love somebody but there are different kinds of sex sex with someone you love it is more passionate and real. It makes...

My girlfriend of 3 years called things quits about a month ago. She also had a problem with my brother for awhile because of something he said when he was drunk and angry. It took over a year for her...

Yeah that sound kinda weired. I have heard of girls not making noise but that would suck. I've only been with one girl, for 3 years though, so I learned a lot about how she liked things. She made a...

If she was testing me she went too far. I realized I could never marry this person. We don't share the same values in life. I guess love blinded that from me. I didn't see it until I really saw what...

Well haha my job working nights is a great job. It's for a railroad so I have great pay and benefits. Not to mention an amazing retirement plan. I make around 50k a year so getting a different job...

Ok. I meant self esteem is higher since being with her. Not just when I'm with her. I still have some stuff I need to work on. Like when I see a girl I like I get kinda attached and would be...

Yea defiantly emotional torture. I'm over it. She has everything I want in a person but can't compromise on things that are important to me. I just need to find someone who will.

It sucks though...

Thanks this is all great advice. I know I can't keep living with her because she keeps fooling with my emotions. Tonight she was talking to that guy again on the phone. I just left the house because...

That's pretty much exactly how I feel. She knows she has me on a leash but can be single. I want to move on so bad but I just keep thinking of all the things she said during our relationship about...

I just dont feel proposing to her would change how she feels. She says she loves me but isnt "In love" with me anymore. I know we could work through anything if we try though. I just need her to be...

About a month ago my girlfriend of 3 years called it quits. She blames it on me not proposing so she slowly fell out of love with me. We were 20 when we started dating and she was my first real...