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Thanks for the responses. Yeah, kids could definitely be the biggest problem, but luckily for us we both have similar views on the topic. Neither of us have kids and both of us want them eventually....

I'm not usually one to bump a post but I could really use some advice. Thanks.

First of all, good for you for having the strength to end it. From what I've read it sounds like this just isn't meant to be. I know it seems like you're never going to get over her, but once you...

I've been in a relationship with a woman 11 years older than me (I'm 27 and she's 38) for about a month now. At first the age difference didn't bother me at all, as I figured this would just be...

Yeah, honestly, the best thing to do is to just get over her and move on. I know that's not what you want to hear right now, but you're only hurting yourself by chasing after a girl that in all...

Sounds to me like your over-thinking things. When you said you weren't feeling any "butterflies" I took that to mean you weren't really feeling an attraction to her. If you're attracted to her and...

Guys feel butterflies too, so if you're not feeling anything special then maybe you just don't feel that way about her? It's certainly happened to me before, where I think I have really strong...

I'm looking for a little advice on a situation I'm in with a girl. It's kind of odd and I don't know if it's leading anywhere or not.

About a week ago a made a post on the casual encounters...

Thanks for your comments lissa. No, I'm pretty sure she know's where I stand. I told her that I didn't see our relationship turning into something serious, and since that seemed to be what she wanted...

So a quick update in case anyone is curious. I wasn't sure if I should tell her by phone before the weekend or in person after. I had been avoiding talking to her because I didn't want to kepp...

I get what you're saying, although I think your comments are a little harsh. However, as woody has stated, I'm not going to have to opportunity to see her until Monday. I think woody's point about...

Thanks for the advice guys. Yeah, I probably should have waited to have sex with her until I was sure I was interested. Woody may be right, I might have enjoyed the chase more than the feast. You're...

She's a little overweight, but I wouldn't say she's ugly. I'm just not feeling it anymore for whatever reason.

So I've been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now. We started talking online and then met up shortly after. It was exciting at first. I haven't done a whole lot of dating so I was really excited...

Well then I guess you might as well just forget about it. If you keep bothering her about it she'll just get more annoyed. I guess it's possible the whole thing was alchohol induced, but I would bet...

She's not lesbian, bisexual maybe or just a little curious. It's not that uncommon for women to be a little curious about being intimate with another woman. Doesn't mean they're lesbian or bisexual...

Yeah, it's like Smakie said, technique > strength. Is she really stronger? No, probably not, you'd probably beat her in an arm wrestling contest assuming you're a decent sized guy. But that often...

The only advice I can give you is to get over yourself and deal with it. It's in the past, she's not doing it now, big whoop. What's important is who she is now, not who she was.

Also, I...

Seems to me you're in a lose/lose situation no matter who you decide to be with. The solution isn't to try and pick one, because it's highly unlikely Kayla is into you, and even if she is she...

Yeah, I think it's time for you to leave this relationship. I mean, after 7 years of being together I'm sure you care about her a lot, but what exactly are you getting from this relationship? You...

Yup, what were you waiting for after that first meeting. I know you mentioned you were both busy but you should have at least tried to get together. At least that would have shown her you're...

Yeah, I agree with the others. It seems like kind of a shame to end a relationship when everything else about it is so great, but this is obviously something that's bothering you and if he's not...

If you've talked to her about your intimacy issues and it hasn't helped then you should move on. You've cheated before and it's pretty obvious you're going to cheat again. You're not married yet...

They've already disrespected you by trying to stop you from dating the man you love for what seems like a pretty silly reason, so I wouldn't worry too much about disrespecting them. They're the ones...

Yeah, I agree that his attitude towards the conversation wasn't very good, but you pretty much demanding that you guys get married is the wrong way to go about it as well. Marraige should be...