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It seems to me like you're patronizing these men for no discernible reason except for the fact that they have approached you.


If you prefer to meet men in a solely intellectual setting, you...

You might be safer to stay away. You explained yourself thoroughly in your messages, and if she feels emotionally capable/stable enough to continue your relationship she will seek you out.

Well if you use the word "thou"....

Just kidding. But I think it's an age/experience thing. As a young adult, you haven't got that immediate read on the situation that an older person is going to...

I am a trustworthy person, but I guess I can see where that could be scary (ie: I could be perceived as being flirty or loose because I have all these male friends). The trouble is that this isn't...

Yep, this is where it's good to go static.

I'm not sure that I would agree that she's "letting" it get to her: everyone has a different tolerance for stressors. Clearly hers is lower than some,...

Hey, all,

I have a pretty generic question I guess.

I've always gotten along better with guys than with girls. Not that I don't have girl friends (I can't exactly do hair and nails with my male...

Hey, buddy.

I got your message, you know. I get all of them, and it seemed to me that they were hurting less and less. My stomach still flips every time I hear your voice on the other end of the...

(I didn't read your other thread, so take this with a grain of salt)

Some girls are really into this kind of behavior, especially if it doesn't extend past the sexual realm. Most, even, will...

I have been extremely close with this guy for about six months. He had a girlfriend for this whole time, and spoke about her on a regular basis. As we were (at that point) completely platonic, it...

Some people have a more flexible personality than others. You adapt to different situations. That's good.

Finding yourself is, largely, about maturing. Usually, just living will be enough to help...

Sure. It can't hurt to be more social, and you may find that your attraction to someone develops over time. Knowing them a little deeper before jumping right in doesn't hurt, either.

Why not just go to a bar...?

She is probably extra clingy right when you get home because she missed you (and made herself insecure) while you were away. So the fact that you want to spend time with your friends right away has...

I think you are over-simplifying and over-analyzing this.

The idea that you aren't an "emotional choice mate" is silly. You would never want to be with someone that didn't fall for you on an...

Hey buddy,
I took you off Facebook today. Off my phone. I hope you don't notice. Or, if you do, I hope you can realize that this stopped being about you a long time ago. I want to wish you happiness...

He is one of our welders. He's a big guy but not usually like this.

He followed me out to my car today and I threatened to call the police (it was dark and I got scared) and he went back inside....

I wasn't sexually attracted to him, but decided to wait it out and see if things would develop. He seemed uncommonly nice, and I wanted to give him a chance.

The texts are threatening (not like...

Being single does not suit me at all.

I recently met a man at work who I clicked with pretty quickly. He was outgoing and funny, and we spent a little while sparring and I ended up giving him my...

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People f*ck up relationships all the time because of emotional baggage. The OP is hurting people, just like every Momma's boy/victim of a bad breakup/emotionally vulnerable person on the planet...

You know, as tempted as I am to make a jump and diagnose you with some psychological disorder.... (kidding)

I can relate a little bit, although I don't even get all the way to relationship stage....

I think a lot of people also confuse niceness and passivity.
You can be nice without suffering from the "symptoms" mentioned above. Passivity is an adapted response borne of insecurity and reasoning...

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I'll get right on that....

...Haha sorry. No naked pictures this time =P

But seriously. I was a little taken aback by my boyfriend's reaction, but I hadn't told him about the scars. Is this something I should disclose?...

I know most girls don't mind scars on their guys, but what about the reverse?

I am pretty hard on my body (poor physical coordination and lack of inhibition), and while I'm not disfigured or...

-shrug-

I wouldn't pursue a relationship with someone more than 5 or so years older than I am. But I can appreciate attractiveness at any age.