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He should be second guessing his response; not his failure to protect you. He could have protected you by cooperating!! His refusal actually put you both at risk. Was it chivalrous? Yes! Was it...

First off, you deserve a lot of credit for being a single mom. It's hard work and noone gives you the credit you deserve. Second, a friend of mine seems to sell herself short in part because she...

I was deathly shy. I always will be. But you can't let a silly thing like that stop you. Come up with four or five things to say before hand.....then go from there. I usually don;t get past...

Move forward in life. You will find the right girl along the way.

Be assured that for a guy watching porn has nothing to do with dissatisfaction with their partner. Guys and girls are wired very differently.

Thanks JadenMia...

I'll be totally honest....I think she is fantastic. But I am committed to my marriage; and she would never do anything to interfere. There is a clear line between us that...

I have a dear friend of the opposite sex (just friendship; no intimacey). I've become friends with her sister and mom over the years too. She got divorced a little over a year ago. I'm a lawyer...

It sounds like you have a good friendship. Good friends are hard to find and friendships require time and attention to develope and last. Sure you want to go beyond the friendship phase; we've all...

Dude, don't tell her that there's someone at work offering you sex. You may be sleeping on the couch whether you want to or not. ....and she doesn't trust you to have sex?!?! What the hell are...

People do not change. Are you going to be satisfied in a relationship where you are supporting him? I've watched a friend go through this same problem. Honestly, I see the lazy partner as being...

Okay, I'm a quiet guy/shy guy. I can relate... But nevertheless a relationship is a two way street and he should be communication and returning the affection. He won't change who he is. It's only...

Friendship, companionship, common interests..... You've got the makings of a fantastic relationship. It may take you some time to see her as more than a friend though. Keep enjoying what you are...

Nope, you can't love someone too much. That's the way love should be. You can, however, overdo it as far as expressing your love though. Don't smother him or overwhelm him with attention. Take a...

He LOVES you! Plain as day. However, you don't want more than a friendship from him at this point. He's hurt, confused and about a million other emotions right now. He's distancing himself because...

You can't MAKE anybody do anything!! Some of the best relationships start out as friendships.....hang in there.

Thanks guys. This has been very insightful. I agree something has to be done. She will continue to deny any problems and live this way if I don't. Ultimatum, seperation......all scare me. I...

Children are 6 and 8. NOT post-partum depression. Although depression/self esteem issues may be a possibility.

Hey guys, thanks for your thoughts. I'm reasonably certain there is no one else involved. I do want to ressurect our marriage and I've been trying everything in my power to do so. That is why this...

Before my wife started working again after our children, I always made it a point to say goodbye in the morning and kiss her, even if all I got was the top of her head, and even if I was mad or...

No jokes, I promise. Most people have sexual desires. Masturbation is an outlet and although a private affair, there is no reason to feel bad. Porn can be very stimulating. This is natural toos...

I'm not telling you to run for the hills, but I think you need to explore the issue in depth. My wife was the same way when we married. Since then her one or two friends have faded away and she...

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If this is a serious post answer this.... What is your history regarding sexual relationships with women? Have you had many? Do you or your sister have self esteem or insecurity issues? ...

Thanks for putting so much thought into this guys. Yes, I am probably martyring myself. Her being a drama queen living off the confusion may have some merit to. Regardless she is a dear friend and...

Everyone has a past good or bad. If he's going to be part of your future then he better comes to terms with your past. What he called you shows a lack of respect and that is fundamental to any...

Been in the same situation. My gf sold her home and moved to be near me when I went away to law school. It was very stressfull knowing that she gave up her job and her home, ect. to follow me. If...