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snowbird- it simply is unfair of her to "lead you on". even if she meant that there might actually be hope- it's not fair to dump you then leave you hanging on. and yes- letting go and holding on-...

i agree with smackie9. if you continue this relationship your problems will likely worsen. be smarter about who you fall in love with. you have to use your brains :P dont just go off of feelings-...

i went through a similar break up and had similar dark thoughts as a result. it was with my first love and i didnt understand why he dumped me. there was no closure. i ended up seeing a therapist and...

if worse comes to worse, you can confront him about his feelings for his girlfriend and his intentions with her. then lay your feelings out for him. then tell him you have waited long enough. that...

this whole thing sounds like a trainwreck. 1- he is your soon-to-be-ex-husbands best friend. 2- you're not even legally divorced yet. 3- he still lives with his girlfriend- YES- current girlfriend-...

you guys dated for 8 years. it's going to take a while to get over her and it will be hard. that's only natural. you can't beat yourself up about the baby when she was out doing her own thing while...

Both my ex and I made mistakes in our relationship. I feel like I put in way more effort tho and gave him many, MANY chances. But about 6 months ago I made a mistake and didn't get another chance. I...

Your marriage IS in a bad place if you are considering having an affair. Although I dont blame you for thinking about it- thinking leads to doing. You are in a risky place. If you do have an affair,...

Bottom line, you cant control her, her emotions, or her actions. She says she loves you but her actions say the opposite. You need to either decide that you are okay with being her second choice or...

I want to know why you dont stand up for yourself. You ARE her second choice. She is STILL cheating on you- emotionally. Stop being in denial. Face the facts. She isnt truly sorry. Saying sorry means...

i think it depends on the maturity levels of the couples on fb. if its causes drama in your relationship, then dont be fb friends. its not that big of a deal.

sex and physical appearance are important but to believe that they are some of the MOST important pillars in a relationship is the wrong way of thinking. you need to get your priorities straight....

I haven't had any second thoughts about discontinuing talking to my friend. I realized we weren't compatible. He is much too sensitive, insecure, and boring, to be honest.
I am not back together...

I wouldnt get so discouraged. Of course it's going to be awkward the first time you meet someone like that. Sounds like you are being a bit hard on yourself. Hopefully he is understanding that you...

she is probably emotionally unavailable right now. when you go through something like that- you became very numb and whatever feelings you had before can completely change. you can be there for her...

sounds like she is an awkward gal. and it sounds like she likes you too which makes it even more awkward for her. it sounds like she has a lot going for her and could be a winner. i wouldnt give up....

if she is still living with her parents, then you are just going to have to respect them and their decisions even if you dont agree with them. what other choice do you have? be respectful towards...

if you are that wishy, washy about her, then sounds like you need to give her the boot. doesnt sound like its going to go anywhere. maybe you need more time to yourself. sounds like you are not in a...

she wont end her rebound relationship? she doesnt know what she wants. so you need to decide what YOU want. do you want to continue to draw out this painful breakup or do you want to move forward...

work on liking yourself and being confident NOT cocky. you will give off good vibes that will attract not only women but the right kind.

why do you need to do anything about her? sleeping with your ex isnt the issue. being depressed and drinking too much are your issues. work on yourself. dont drink excessively. be content with being...

if you do like her for more than her looks, then tell her. if that isnt good enough, then yes, she has insecurity issues. then thats on her and you need to decide if you are okay with dating an...

she isnt looking for "i love you". she wants to know why you like her BESIDES the superficial reasons. you only said things about her looks. do you only like her for her looks? she wants to know what...

it sounds completely understandable why you'd be feeling that way. you need reassurance from her that she wont betray you again. sounds like it would be worth bringing it up to her. but don't do it...

for the record, although i too find nothing wrong with porn, this would bother me as well. i would try talking to him about it. your feelings are real and should be acknowledged.